To be intimidated sexually by my girlfriend?

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I have been dating a girl for about six months now and I am still very sexually attracted to her. I just have very conflicting opinions on her when it comes to sex. I have always considered my sex drive to be pretty high, but hers puts mine to shame. She wants to have sex multiple times every day. When we're not together and we're talking on the phone, somehow she always changes the subject to talk about sex. Other times when we're talking on the phone about non-sexual things, I still catch her masturbating because I can hear her breathing. I really do love having sex with her, but I also wish she didn't want to so much. Is it normal to feel inadequate or like less of a man because my girlfriend talk/thinks about/wants to have sex much more than me?

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Based on 15 votes (11 yes)
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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I always thought that men would be happy to have that kind of effect on women. I was all wrong

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    what you need to find out is... does she actually love you and care for you, or is she putting her orgasms first and you second?

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  • harryscary
    11 years ago

    We still have a great relationship otherwise, but it does cause a lot of internal problems with me, because I would never tell her how I feel or that I want her to calm down sexually for fear of her becoming extremely insecure and stopping all sex completely, which would be much worse than my current situation.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    No you shouldn't be. I think she's way too focused on it for her own good. I don't know what you should do, is it not meshing well with your relationship?

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