To always be attracted to my male best friends

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When i was a child i had a crush on a male best friend but he didnt like me back so i got over it, then when i was 16 i had another best friend n i had a crush on him, we ended up making out one night n almost sleeping together n it ended up ruining our relationship, about a year ago i made another best guy mate n recently hooked up with him, now he never wants to see me again... is it normal to want to explore further into inter gendar relationships n why do they always break down after it happens?

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Based on 39 votes (28 yes)
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  • you'llneverfightalone
    12 years ago

    nothing wrong with being gay or maybe theres something you like about him maybe the smell

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  • Ill.will
    12 years ago

    Ill be your next best male friend and you wont have to worry about me running off on you
    :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    In a way I can see you going from a friendship with guys to romance. But you are going from friendship to sex. Why don't you put a few steps in between?

    Like if you like the guy beyond being a friend, think: what would the next step be? Hint: its not tongue wrestling or dropping your pants.

    A next step would be a date, together, like for lunch, a movie, a dance whatever.

    If you are turned down for that, you know he's not interested, you weren't inappropriate and there is no embarrassment for either of you.

    But look at the embarrassment going from friend all the way to the horizontal mambo: do you really have to wonder? You are not going to have much luck forging romance out of sexualized friendships.

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  • artFreak
    13 years ago

    well... i think your problem is that you pick guys for "friends" the guys you are actually attracted from the beggining with them. I mean, you might not realize it, but you actually want them in your pants, and play the friendship game first...
    Try to find someone that is not attracted to you at all... Maybe a gay friend! If you get attracted to him at the end..well..i smell a problem.
    If not, then, i guess it's what i said first, and it's absolutely normal.. Just try to play the game good, and not make them believe that you are just a friend. they might freaked out, b/c after the hooked up thing things get complicated if they have in mind that you are just a friend.

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