To actually want a promiscuous girlfriend?

That's a pretty schizophrenic post. Have you gone off your meds?

If you wanted her to fuck a bunch of other guys in your bed and she felt like doing it how would that be disloyal? Why not just wait till she's done then eat her out to thank her? It's fine to be thanked, even if something's no bother.

Those kinds of girls always end up cheating on you. They always seem to prefer to only have "guy friends." Invest in some heavy duty plastic garbage bags.

The idea of it is really hot to me, I'd love to be able to be emotionally open to it some day. My impulse is to be terribly controlling which I hate. Even just recently I told the girl I was seeing that I wasn't kissing other girls and she said the same. And then I said I had also stopped flirting with camgirls. And now I feel like I have tricked her into something exclusive she may not want. But back to what you were saying yes thats very hot and can be done right if you both are in communication about what you'd like and respect each other's preferences

You can still be her boyfriend and let her fuck other guys. Maybe she will let you watch or join in. Maybe she will let you pick out the guys...another possibility is that there are lots of reformed sluts if what you are really looking for is experience and openess to lots of sexual practices. There are also women very experienced and open about sex who've had few partners but with that few explored a lot, fucked a lot. Or find an inexperienced women and carefully, slowly but surely turn her out. That takes some skill though but if you do it right you've got your hands on a personally trained playmate who has done lots of firsts with only you making you much more special to her than you would be to a slut. In my experience though slutty girls do chill out eventually and start looking for something more than sex. Those are the best but they can see a douchebag coming from a mile away so dont be a douchebag.

Why?