Threesome? help me!!

your bf likes fucking other girls. do me a favor and understand the fact that it is wrong morally and physically-as far as health goes to do so........basically your bf is an asshole oh and this is coming from a young male who doesnt mind going balls deep but the point is that if i want to go on a fucking streak i dont get a girlfriend all hes going to do is give u a life long surprise that involves a lot of cream and long days of "what if"

My boyfriend wanted to have a threesome too, but I told him no way. I would never want to share my boyfriend with anyone, or have to watch him have sex with another girl in front of me. A lot of people have threesomes, so it's normal. But if you're not comfortable having one, tell your boyfriend. If he gets mad or whatever, then he must not be worth your time. You should be enough. Don't let him pressure you into something you don't want to do. If he really cares, he'll be okay with you not wanting to and will drop it.
Hope that helps (:

plus if hes got all these girls willing to do threesomes imagine what hes doing when your not around.i mean you dont just walk around asking?????????????????........think about it.....hes fucking u then fucking her then saying "hey why dont we all fuck together?" then repeating the process

im srry if i sound like a dick but i hate these turd ticklers that call themselves men and put a mask on the ones that really are.

not fair, if he doesnt wanna do it with a guy then hes just taking advantage of you and the whole gettin closer thing, j¡he was overcompensating

Wake up girl. This relationship is going nowhere. The fact he wants to have sex with other women but doesn't want you to have sex with other men is a huge clue. Do you think he respects you? Do you think he sees you a a potential mother of his children? He is just using you to act out his sexual fantasies. Best to chalk this one up to experience and move on.

I think you could have a threesome again but hes got to be fair and let you have a 2 guy one as well. he got his way you should get yours after all you let him have his fantasy. So many guys can handle 2 girls but are frightened to have another man

That is sooo hot :P

My ex boyfriend & me were together for 4 years had a threesome with another girl and It broke us up In the end. It seemed like fun at the time but after we always fighted about It. Now 2 years later Im happy with my boyfriend of 10 months which Is not Interested In anyone but me I feel the same If you love someone so much you wouldnt dream of sharing that someone with nobody. Hope that helps

Thank u for all ur comments.. It helped me a lot :)

I said no to my boyfriend and he was okk with it.. He even told me I don't want u doing anything ur not comfortable with..
I guess he cares abt me..

it's always been my opinion that dating couple shouldn't have threesomes. well atleast not until they've been together for a pretty long time. why? because it can lead to cheating and stuff. look at your situation, sure he's not cheating on you but he's already thinking about getting it on with another girl.

You should do what you want - if you don't want to, tell him you love him (assuming you do) and that you tried it since he wanted to, but having tried it, do not want to again.

He had no bussiness getting mad when you suggested a 3 some with two guys - but while it is a double standard, I am positive more men would consider a two girl 3-some than two guy one girl (judging by porn movies this seems the case - assuming they make what sells)

me and my wife started to do 3 somes with a woman she like to do it with a woman that all she wanted to do is her and her only i had to watch

do it make him happy then tell him no he needs to make u happy i want wife to get fucked doggie when on knees blowing me

I love threesomes too with both guys and girls

do it enjoy if hes happy u should be

suck him off as she eats u

From my side i will refuse to have a 3some with a guy to ,JUST BECAUSE its a (threesome) my wife could do girls but i never and i'll never like men and 1st rule in the 3some is thats it HAVE to be sharing the sexual feeling between all 3 persons if i like men i'll go for it , and she tottaly understand this

Yes i think you should.

ya bf is a hypercrite

i think it more of a fantisy thing and with another guy just creeps him out cause it would be kinda gay iv had this talk with my girl but shes bicurious so its a little diffrent

Don't do it unless that other girl is ugly

I'll join you guys ;) I'll show you how to lose the zero and get with the hero!

i think that that first time should be your last..just something to experiment and share together once. tell him how you dont feel comfortable doing it again.if he has a big problem about it, then think to yourself..is he really that worth it? hes just being a scum bag if he dont respect your wishes. you guys are a couple and there shouldnt have to be another girl to accompany your sex.

My bf was the same, we had 1 threesome an suddenly he wants tons. But I was done after the 1st so I told him I lost interest in woman and it was just experimenting lol work too

NO ABSOLUTELY NOT unless he will have one with u and another guy its unfair and double standard and make sure u have the threesome with the guy first he doesnt see u as n equal in the relationship

if youre not comfortable with it, dont do it. just because you did it once doesnt mean you have to do it again. it takes a lot of trust and communication to have a relationship like that. and if its something you cant do, he should respect that. and if he doesnt, you have a problem.

Never do something sexually that you don't want to do. If your boyfriend can't respect that then it means that he doesn't respect you, and thus, you should drop him.

It sounded like you would be interested in another 3some, but MMF. If that is still the case, then you should go for it. Here is where the right porn could be helpful--find a movie depicting MMF action and tell him how much you think you would enjoy being sandwiched between him and another guy. If he really cares about you as much as you think he does, he'll go for it, especially if you remind him that he owes you one.

Tell him that once was all he gets and if he wants other women he needs to find a new woman.

No, don't keep doing it. You can do it again, but only every-once-in-a-while. I think you should do it only if your sex life needs "mixing" up, that is, if you guys feel something is missing, are bored, and want to try it again. After you mix up your sex life, you may get back on track.

I agree with Lysette. My wife and I have been sharing another man for many years . She has become addicted and absolutely loves her little gang bangs. It helps if the men really like each other, as in Bi.

It's your body. No means No.

You need launch a serious campaign to get him to agree to an MFM threesome. He owes you one.

You know earlier I wrote someone about all the latest research showing that there has been phenomenal growth in the number of marriages with husbands who want their wives to have the experience of other men, especially threesomes. They have already collected a lot of evidence showing a growing majority of men are Genetically inclined to favor that kind of Variant Monogamy or Sex-positive relationship anyway. All you have to do is convince your boyfriend that he's one of them. Just hire some doctor to tell him he is.
I'm sorry, but you really, really need to experience the MFM threesome. Besides, you deserve it, right?

lol apparently he is 'not all that' interested in u.u hav to stay strong and 4get him.y wood u stay with him if he wants 2 fuck another woman and not let u fuck another guy in the 3sum!any way, either way he is useing u!

yes a guy dosent want to see another guy nude having sex with his girlfriend and guys think that a girl cares if thay c another girl nude

i wouldnt do it again with a girl, just a guy. tell him either do it at least once with a guy, or its over and see what he says then...

be careful with adding another guy because there is this extreme double standard about guy and girl's sexuality: most people think it's ok and even hot for a girl to be sexually open (as far as some type of sex w/ same gender) but not a guy. Perhaps it would help if you reassured him that you wouldn't think of him any less if you and him and another guy did it.

um... have you ever thought he is using you he got tired of u that why he wants to he's doin it for him or else he wouldnt keep bugging you about it cuz when you say no then no is the answer

If you are not comfortable doing it again DON'T! If he isn't willing to fulfill your fantasy of including another man then HELL NO. If he wants to be with another woman he should entertain the idea of having two men please you! What's fair is fair

Absolutely not. Every time I've ever done anything sexual that I thought was a little weird at the time -- I've lived to regret it. Sometimes for a very long time. I had quite a bit of casual sex when I was much younger and I sure wish I could take it back.

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no you shouldn't! it's the beginning of an end to your relationship. he will start to ask for more and more!

if you dont want to do it then dont do it. maybe you should think about why you dont want to, and then talk it out with your boyfriend.

Of course you should do it again, but I think its reasonable that you should get YOUR fantasy too. Maybe you should do swinging with another couple... then it would be fair

yes u should do it again with another girl,you said it gut u guys closer

Unless your orgy material it will eventually destroy your relationship