Thoughts of making out with guy friends, even though i'm not gay.

Sometimes, I imagine what would happen if I reached out and started making out with my friends. They're all dudes and as far as I know, I'm not gay.

I have no clue why that thought pops up in my head, and I don't like it.

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  • bicurious and open minded thaaaaats all.
    Dont worry you just need to figure yourself out;) Peeeeeeeace out mayn <333

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  • MiaScarlette.

    I thought you said they're all guys as far as i know. I was laughing then i realized what you said i was like awe that's not as funny. lol. It's totally normal though. Like what everyone else said :D

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  • Platinum719

    As long as you don't enjoy the thoughts, or worse act upon them you are completely fine. Disturbing thoughts are part of being human.

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  • chaky92

    The human mind fucks with us a lot, it is a troll, don't freak out, and if you are gay its ok.

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  • asdf90091

    It's normal. At some point, most guys at least wonder what it'd be like to mess around with another guy, but society tells us it's "gay" so we try to supress those thoughts because we don't like being labled.

    It's part of human nature. You won't know if you'll enjoy it or not until you try it. It doesn't change who you are as a person so don't feel bad about it.

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  • sparrowfeed

    ya, that's really normal.
    its probably a lot healthier than being just strictly HETEROSEXUAL. i want you to read something i recently read in a philosophy class: melancholy gender (judith butler); butler talks about how the more we repress homosexual urges, the more we repress deeper parts of ourselves. which is why ultimately, the notion of being 'comfortable in your sexuality' is very relevant here. to be comfortable is not to be afraid.

    as a girl, i have less trouble with gender distinctions (were conditioned not to be so 'heterosexual' and strict with our sexualities); i HAVE actually made out with friends, which didn't turn me on or anything. but i urge you to read the butler text.shes' a bit of a controversial woman, but nonetheless interesting.

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  • lemoncakex3

    Totally, normal human nature like others said. No need to feel grossed out about it but I see how you are. [:

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  • more2c711

    I'm a boy, I'd make out with you.

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  • SatansBarbie

    You're probably bi. If you enjoy having those thoughts, truly, deep down, then don't feel bad for it. Or even if you were gay. It's your business, you don't have to tell anyone and you don't have to feel bad for it either. DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. Fuck everyone else and their ignorant, close minded opinions.

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  • wisedom21

    Completly normal! I felt the same way for the past couple of years and until recently had not acted upon those feelings. Now that I have I'm learning who i am as a person and it's making previous decisions I have made in my life make more sense. I think it would be good to try it out but I would wait till college, people are usually more open minded.

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  • musicislife101

    im a girl to and sometimes those thoughs pop into my head and i do not like them either.

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  • 7221

    haha I'm a girl and I think about it too and definitely have no intention of ever acting upon my thoughts

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  • Yazorin

    i think about that kinda shit all the time im not bi or gay just comfortable with my sexuality

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  • You're probably just bi-curious, it's human nature to be curious about what you would do with the same gender. It's perfectly normal to think that.

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  • iluvkandy4

    ..youre gay.

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  • memyselfandyou

    Oh, that's my problem too right now, I don't know either..

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  • Gabriell

    NORMAL! (unless you fall in love with boy)

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  • Krazy91

    not normal but maybe you should explore these feelings with a nice girl.

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