Thoughts of hurting my girlfriends mini dogs

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Hello!
This is the situation. 2 little yorkshire terrier mega mini, scared of everything, shaking all the time, they hide ehing my girlfriend from eveything and cry all the time for no reason, they make a small little noise so that my girlfriend picks them up in the arms, they look at me a stranger evil.

That triggers me such a string feeling to hurt them...hate that feeling.

So I tried to be friends with them and see if I could actually like them like mu girlfriends does but it is impossible, I feel it is so stupid to feed and confort this 2 stupid demanding rats.

I cannot control thoughts of killing them, just kicking them hard or throwing them throw a window.This is somethig that makes me feel super uncomfortable and nervous, ovbiuosly I control myself so holding this anger destroys my brain and I cant stop thinking in the dogs and analyzing why the fuck they exist, why people , why my girlfriend enjoys living with this little boring creatures when there is sooo much to do in life.

This gets so extreme that can affect my desire if having sex with my girlfriend( if the dogs are around in the house)... so it even affects my sex life!!!

I do not know what to do. I love this girl, and I have always loved dogs in my family (big ones). Never ever had this shitty feeling to hurt an animal. Its not nice but it can get really uncontrollable.

Is this normal? What would you do?
I am afraid of telling my gorlfriend as she migh think I am crazy.

We are thinking in living toghether and she will bring the rats!!! I am scared I might hurt them one day if I live with them.
I feel I cannot live in peace with this animals in my house and it will not be possible as I have already tried very hard to change my feelings, impossible.

I alao love her so much that I Would feel so bad making her to get rid of her loving rats...

Its really hard, I want her to be happy too.

And by the way, the 2 rats smeel incredibly bd for the 1kilo they weight. The whole house smells to dog, so this makes me feel as If I were not in a human being home, I am never confortable with that smell.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    You can control it. You just choose not too.

    If you can't deal with her dogs, then this relationship is probably not gonna work. She sounds like she's possibly not a hugely responsible dog owner, but you don't really make it clear and honestly, if you're that rage filled about it, idk if I trust your judgement.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    I had the same issue with my girlfriend a long time ago. I hated that dog so much. It would run from me and bark anytime I cam home. I just hated him so much. I tried to be friends with the little bastard but then he'd piss me off. Idk the solution but i feel your pain.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    oof

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    She'd probably come to resent you for telling her to get rid of the dogs, and you want to kill said dogs, so the best solution here would be to leave. To me this is the equivalent of dating someone with kids, and I dislike kids, so I don't date people with kids. XD

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    • weirdstuff
      5 years ago

      I dont hate dogs as I have always had in my family( big ones ), I never knew I would hate this dogs so much. At the beggining they did not bother me that much but this has been increasing with time, also my love for this girl. We really like each other and would be too stupid to break for this reason. I think That I would prefer teñling her about this than just leaving.
      Kids is totally different league, you cant make an analogy with kids...

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        5 years ago

        Well if you want to tell her you want to harm her dogs and make her choose between you or the dogs,be prepared if her answer isn't to your liking. If the pets were there before you, she might choose them. I've seen it happen before. I'm not against you or anything, I'm just saying it might be a possibility.

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        • weirdstuff
          5 years ago

          I know.
          it is selfish from me to ask her that but I really cant cope with those little dogs. I just feel absolute absurdity when I see her treating them like babies. I will wait a bit , maybe a miracle occurs and someting happens.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Find a way to get rid of them. Maybe the door gets left open accidentally (deliberately)

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  • 1ne8ight7even
    5 years ago

    Tie them in a sack weighed down with some bricks and throw them in the river when she's out, and tell her they escaped. That's what I did with my neighbors cat 3 years ago because it kept shitting in my yard. They thought it must have ran away and I still to this day ask them if they have had any news on fidning the cat because I find it absolutely hilarious listening to their bleating while they are totally unaware that I know where their stupid cat is xD

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    • Nikclaire
      5 years ago

      If someone did that to one of my pets I'd return the favor.

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      • mauzi
        5 years ago

        No you wouldn't.

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