This number of potential interests. iin?

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I am 26 years old and belong to the male gender.

In my lifetime, in all these 26 years, I've been interested in three women. Not that I've been with three. I've only been able to feel any kind of devotion to these 3 women. One girl I knew when I was 14-16, one when I was 19 and the last one from 24 to 26 (ongoing). Some of these, I've never had anything romantic with, at all.

Apart from these 3 individuals, I've never had any interest in anyone, ever. Not the slightest bit of infatuation, interest, desire. Is it normal?

My sexual drive is normal.

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  • PieGoblin^^
    9 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with not having a catalogue of previous girlfriends under your belt. You have the right to be picky, especially when it comes to something as important as a relationship.

    My boyfriend was the same. He's only had a few girlfriends, and was single for a long time before meeting me because he didn't want to date any random girl and start a relationship that would go up in smoke within a couple of months. He's a year younger than you.

    Anyway, don't let anyone tell you its weird or abnormal. You have the right to hold out for someone who fits your standards!

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    What exactly do you mean by interested?

    I'm 27 & haven't been interested in pursuing a serious relationship with a whole lot of girls but have found a whole lot physically attractive.
    I've desired some of these girls but it's been based purely on looks...

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    I would call that a freedom of sorts. Love interests can be exhausting and distracting, hindering self-awareness and individual growth. Although I can't say I've ever gone a very long length of time without liking someone, I haven't been attracted to nearly as many people as those around me. It seems drives me a little crazy to not have someone to think about, so maybe I've forced interest upon myself a couple times.

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  • Anime8
    9 years ago

    Interesting way to start off a question. I have actually seen this question before however; someone only liking about a handful of people in their seemingly long life. I wanna say that it is sort of normal. I mean not everyone is going to like a billion people in their teens. The infatuation part I don't even find to abnormal simply because I've heard it before and I've heard reasons for that one. All in all, I don't want to say your sex drive is abnormal simply because I've heard this question pop up a few times already.

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  • Lariii
    9 years ago

    Maybe you're just picky, but it's normal to be attracted to not many people, though it's more likely that you're attracted to more people.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Not too sure but you might be an aromantic asexual.

    Anyway, you're probably some sort of asexual. There's different degrees and variants of it, so I'm not sure which.

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