This is me... help please!

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Okay, so I'm almost 18. I graduate this year from high school, and I do have a job. I do not drive though. I've been looking for a good guy for awhile now & haven't found any. I love sex, and will have sex after awhile of being in a relationship (not right away, give it a few weeks, depending on how long we've known each other), I do smoke weed, and I drink. I love to hang out with my friends and I give my guy their space. I let them do their own thing. I am a jealous type, but it doesn't get the best of me. I'm not all like "why you liking this bitch picture on facebook?" I could give a shit less about shit like that. I just don't want no bitch fucking with my man. I would like to see my man like 2-3 time a week, not everyday so we would get tired of each other right off hand, and I want an honest, steady relationship. My question is, is the drinking and smoking effecting my relationship probs? Please comment and leave feedback!! I really need help.

Yes, it is messing with them 6
No, it is not messing with it 7
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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't go for you drinking and smoking but then again i wouldn't go for you even if you weren't.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    Why do you think it is? I know lots of guys who'd jump at a girl like you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Im not sure why I think it is I just do, because I'm very mature. Just guys are complicated. I wish I knew why guys don't jump at me. Because apparently all guys think I'm "beautiful" and shit... but don't like the partying i guess

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  • Gravy
    11 years ago

    Is it just weed or cigarettes as well? If cigarettes, 18yrs is a good time to quit smoking. Trust me, do it now. Else, In 20yrs time you'll look like 58 not 38.
    As for weed, you'll grow out of it when your sick of living on the rags of your arse and your BF is wasted on the sofa and your 3rd kid to a different bloke crying he wants milk but you have none because the deadbeat on the sofa spent all the welfare money.
    Nah, Just messing with ya. Be yourself, have a good time. You seem like a cool chick. Don't worry, some young gun will think he's won the lottery between your thighs.

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  • michaels4p5
    11 years ago

    either.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    Maybe you're looking in the wrong places? Hey, this post might not make it through the moderators, PM me and we can talk more :)

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      ohhhh danny is a creeper.... lol

      and maybe it cause your a mix of mature, but enjoy smoking and shit, it throws them off, since most guys like that are more on the immature side. maybe try picking one with potential and learn more about him, he might suprise u, or whatever go ride a gryphon or something, id date a girl if she let me ride her pet gryphon, shit

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