This is a long one

Take the chanse dude the girl I loved left me before I could ask her out ;( ..... So go for her

i am a female, and no i do not support you telling her how you feel, i am being realistic, a had a best friend (male) we were pretty much the same as you and steph, he grew on having feeling for me, and i only saw him as a brother and a close friend... once he took me on a "dinner date" that i thought was ok, after the night ended, he told me how he felt for me, at first i was really surprised, i had never had the intension to show him that i liked him more than just a friend.. heres the thing(if a girl has a feeling for a guy more than friendship she would show it to the maximum, she would want more kisses close to the lips..etc.. YOU would literally feel it..i however told my ex best friend unfortunately that i saw him as a best friend and nothing more than that.. but afterwards things between us started becoming super weird and we just drifted away.. i would not advice you to tell him how you feel, because u don't want to lose her presence you'd rather have her by your side 24/7 than lose her, i know it hurts but i say wait for her to show you an "extra" thing, something that she never showed u, or saying things about you 2 just she never said before, wait for this clue and maybe after you guys together would kiss and you would know your answers..

my advice as a girl, do not tell her, i wish you all the best.. remember i am just telling you this for my personal experience and not all stories end the same, she might actually like you but waiting for you to tell her....

update me on what went on, i am interested to actually know!!

You should just come clean and tell her how you feel. Maybe she will feel the same, its sounds to me that she most likely will.

If she doesn't well, isn't it worth the risk really?

you only have one life so make the best of it or whatever they say. "Take chances"

If she's done all these things with boys, but then when it comes to you, she just lies there...maybe she's just a flirt and not attracted to you. She seems odd to be honest.

You've gotta tell her how you feel.
Or you're going to be the one catching the last bus and missing out.
She sounds like a popular girl who doesn't stay single for long, hmmm tell her you like her and if it's reciprocrated, well congrats but if it isn't...tell her you can still be friends.

I think if you have "sleepover" and sleep together..in the same bed and spend time together in your underwear only, you already have something. That is like the closest you can get to sex without actually having sex. You got her. Tell her you love her so you can actually do her.

Greetings from the guy who wrote this over a year ago (why I'm still getting comments? I dunno, I guess your all just very helpful) I'd like to start off by saying thanks to everyone who commented, it was appreciated and the smartass comments were somewhat entertaining to put it one way. Just bringing those who care up to date, me and "Steph" did have a long and very prosperous relationship. We lasted nearly a year (for teens that aint too shabby) and needless to say Im no longer a virgin who asks websites what to do about a crush. Me n Steph had a brilliant time together and I guess like every other teen couple I figured we would last forever, unfortunately it wasn't meant to be, after breaking my heart the night before my final exam over the phone, she went on to make out with my now ex-best friend the next week. At the moment Im very close to forgetting about her, a small part of me still cares but that small part is drowned out by the loud voice of reasoning yelling "FOR GOD SAKES MAN SHE MADE OUT WITH THREE DUDES THE NEXT WEEK, SKAAAAAAANK" Dont get me wrong I have very fond memories of the girl, however these have been tainted by the most recent acts of the clearly unchanged Stephanie (not real name)
Would I go back and take it all back just to mend the void that she created in my life...... maybe, I honestly dont know, but without getting all melodramatic there is no point on any comments reassuring me, because Iv heard em all. Thanks again, I hope to stop receiving emails from this site.

ITS FUNNY BUT SOMETIMES BEING TOGETHER ALL OF THE TIME CAN CAUSE CERTAIN ATTACMENT FEELINGS THAT MAY NOT OTHERWISE BE THERE IF THERE WERE DISTANCE, MY OPINION IS SEPERATE YOURSELF FROM HER NOT BUT KICKING HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE BUT BY GOING AWAY FOR A WEEK OR A MONTH SOMEWHERE, NOW IF YOU STILL THINK ABOUT HER EVERYDAY MORE THAN TELL HER, IF YOU THINK ABOUT HER EVERYDAY LESS, THAN GUESS WAT, STILL TELL HER, CONFUSED!!!! IF YOU LIKE ANYBODY YOU CAN EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS RESPECTFULLY AND DIRECTLY SO THAT PERSON CAN UNDERSTAND WHER YOUR STANDING AND IS CAREFULL WITH THERE ACTIONS.

tell her how u feel. is the best thing to do. if ya really are as close as you say, then no matter wat ya wud still be gud friends in the end. the problem wit gurls like her is that they like "bad guys". that's why she keeps gettin her heart broken. gurls like a challenge. but wen they mature from that mindset, they go for the "gud guys".

if she's ready, she will say yes to you. theres no reason for her not to because she feels comftorable wit u. but don't let her walk all over you either. if she says no, mayb it's because she feels like u will always be there. just be straight up and tell her how u feel. but don't put urself in a situation were u might get hurt. chances are is not worth it.

dang bro u got urself in quite a bind, i say get 1 of ur trustworthy friends to ask her if u guys are dating and when she says no have ur friend ask if she likes u in that way cuz ur always hanging out with each other and if she says yep then ur home free but if she says nay spend more time with her and idk be more sensitive and stuff

yeah mang love is love. better not to turn your back on it

Ya def. talk to her before she finds a boyfriend. If you dont tell her then she wont know how much it hurts you that she is dating someone else.

Please, tell her how you feel. Trust me it's the right thing to do. Only then, would you know if she feels the same way about you or not. But i have to warn you, from your relationship you have with her now can change when you tell her how you feel, for better or for worse.

Good luck friend.

Well dude jsut tell ehr like it is before she moves on.. Yall seem like a good couple nad yea.. Good luck with ur girl man and hav fun

this is almost a mirror of me and my sisters best mates situation, but the girl was unfortunately for me my sister. He ended up telling her and now there going out.

Sounds to me that you have a lot of expectations for this relationship & she is only going so far in terms of clarity, commitment and whatever else. Have a big talk. But prepare yourself big time beforehand -- the fact is she may think about your relationship just as she is acting and not want more or what you want.

Awwww!!! I'm sorry but that is sooo cute!!! I think you should just come straight out with it and tell her how you feel---That will make her nervous and then she will have no choice but to tell you how she feels...I hope it works! Never go on in life wishing you would have done something....Best wishes!

Tell her how you feel when it feels right for both of you and say you want to be friends no matter how she feels towards you. it's luck from there

hey - you have to do someting about her before she gets into another relationship and gets her heart broke again. because if that happens then u have to wait for her to trust again. just close ure eyes clench and tell her if she says no just hope u can still be freinds =) good luck !!! )

Do you jerk off and think of her? that´s when you are in love with her

I think you have to do it before she moves on and finds an actual boyfriend and your left in the dust heartbroken.

Well, I am a dude and i say she is waitin for you to stop pussyfootin around and do it.

It sounds to me like she feels very safe with you. That is a very good thing. All you can do is tell her how you feel and hope for the best. I agree with iwondered wait for the right moment but don't wait too long or you may find yourself out of luck.

i think you should just tell her how you feel. maybe you guys can start something. but tell her when you think its the right moment.