This bitch messages my bf but she’s married?

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so i see on instagram this girl my bf used to talk to 3 years ago is back in town with her brother for idk how long. i’m praying she didn’t reach out to my bf on fb and message him. they only hung out like 3 weeks while she was here 3 summers ago but idk she still bugs me. a few months ago she actually got married. so when i went over to my bf’s house last night i went on his fb messages to see and she did message him. the day before but the messages were all gone. it was the second to top message thing but there were no messages and on the side it said thursday. i was really sad and upset and he asked why i was so upset, i had a feeling he thought i saw it bc the whole rest of the day before i did that i was happy and now i was distant and sad. he was being extra affectionate and the whole night i was waiting for him to admit to that. because he’s a guilty person and i kinda knew he felt that way.

before that though when he was getting on his bed while i was watching youtube on his computer, he said “why were u on my facebook” - he said this bc i was closing tabs and possibly thought i was on it. but i wasn’t i was on youtube. i went on his history and showed him i wasn’t. (when i was really on it i deleted the history, duh, i’m not dumb)
and then he kinda said sorry but said, “you can’t blame me, you’ve gone on my facebook before” and then kinda dropped there.

is what he did, or she did bad? idk why he had to delete the messages. and why did she reach out to him? they’re not friends. they don’t talk and she has a ducking husband. what do you guys think it could’ve said? asking for a friend lol.
p.s, do you think i should do anything about this?

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    This is what you get for snooping through his Facebook account. This is yet another reason why I'm glad to be single. I do have a Facebook, but I never use it. You shouldn't be snooping through his stuff. If some guy was snooping through my stuff it would be a dealbreaker for me.

    It's better to be alone than to participate in this sort of rabid codependency. Ugh!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      but what he did was wrong right? why would a married girl contact a guy he met for three weeks three years ago?

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      • Pooundholes
        4 years ago

        Message the girl and ask her

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          that’s a lil crazy. messAge her and ask her what

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  • CalicoCat
    4 years ago

    So because I have a husband, I can’t talk to guys? Maybe they are friends, but he’s too afraid to tell you because you react like a psychopath. You need to get help, girl. Your behavior is not normal, and it’s not okay. It’s going to end up hurting your boyfriend and yourself. It’s a very toxic reaction to a seemingly normal situation.

    Oh, and don’t be a snoop! He’s allowed to have conversations with people. You’re basically trapping him into a life of just “the boys” and you. It’s. Not. Healthy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      im not controlling. i didn’t even say anything. all i’m wondering is why he deleted it..

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      • CalicoCat
        4 years ago

        Probably the same reason why you deleted the browser history. Two wrongs don’t make a right. And don’t be so quick to assume you’re not controlling. From everything I’ve read, you have some very strong controlling tendencies. And the fact that you’re trying to convince yourself otherwise says a lot about you.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          so why do you think he deleted the convo? do you think he said anything bad? should i let go

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          uh how do i have controlling tendencies? he’s controlling lol

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