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hi. I feel like my friends don't like me anymore. i feel like a loner. constantly. i actually had a dream that i, well, i was just about to kill myself, but then i woke up like, right before. is this normal?? :(
I really wish I could sit down with you and talk to you one on one.
Or, if need be, slap you upside the head with a wiffleball bat.
First, though it is normal to be depressed, even reletively normal to be suicidal after a major bad change, it is NOT normal to DO the DEED!
Go into your bathroom, take a good long look at yourself in the mirror: YOU ARE IMPORTANT!
You say you are feeling suicidal because you FEEL as if your friends don't like you anymore?
Tlak to your friends. It is LIKELY NOT that they don't like you anymore (They Are YOUR Friends, they liked you to begin with Enough to Become your friends) but that somewhere along the line You began to FEEL as if they do not like you.
So, You FEEL this way.
Change the Way you are FEELING!
Call your friends up and talk to them, if need be, ask them how your relationships are truthfully... And Believe what they say!
If the relationships are great. GREAT! :)
If they say that the relationships are not so great, find out why, work it out and try to change things so they are better!
If they say that, no they don't like you anymore...
Tough.
THAT is THEIR loss, Not yours!
YOU are a good person, if you were not, they would not have wanted to become friends with you from the start. People change sometimes, but what is inside doesn't.
Go out then, in that unlikely event, and find MORE friends.
Stay Strong!
Tobra - Often copied, never surpassed!
i felt that way about 2 yrs ago.. (sometimes still do) i accually attemmpted suiside i took about 150 pills at onece.. luckly i worked with my sister at the time and after i did it i got scared and told he what i had done.. she took me to the er and i got my tummy pummped (that suxed ass) then i spent the next 6 month (on and off) in a mental hospital... that sucked worse ass.. ii began to ct my arms legs and face.. i didnt know how to stop.. then i realized that some ppl dont have the opertunity to continue life (car accidents murder illness etc) so why would i take some thing that so maky other ppl would have loved to have.. keep strong.. if u still feel this way after a while please see a doctor u may have depression and or bipolor disorder.. i got diagnosed with bipolar sever deppression and multi personality disorger.. take coltrol of ur life b4 it controls u
don't comit suicide! ive been depressed lately to cus i dont have many friends, but suiicide is not the way to go. i learned this when at a youth rally, somekids included me in there groupe, and it wuz really fun! remember, theres at least someone who cares. i, for one care about u!
Please, don't commit suicide. No matter what you think will happen, you are giving up your friends completely, your family, and life. To not want life anymore, i think, is a sin. Seriously. I have heard you go to hell for killing yourself, because suicide means you don't appreciate life. If you are still thinking of committing suicide, or even exptremely worried about these dreams, go see a psychologist or councelor, he/she will help you. Think of all the people you would be hurting if you committed suicide. If you are comfortable, even talk to your parents if you'd like.
Good Luck!
:)
I was like this at 14. Suicide crazy, all I was was an outcast, nobody liked me because I was a freak. I cutted for 3 years straight, 6th grade-8th grade.
I had one friend.
I would say , Yes kill yourself, go for it, dont listen to people saying dont, because they obviously seem not to feel you, they are living a good life with their friends okay with them so theyre laughing and hanging out in the mean time you are an aloner sad depressed and upset saying ohh man dont think about that, like come on guys feel him, the only thing that you msy have a good relation with is a friend called a knife moving towards a neck slowly and then goes deep .... Maaaaan im jus kidding yo dont do it never think about suicide get a new life have different sex positions go to a strip club and have fun broo
Dont listen to the morons that are encouraging you to commit suicide. No matter what you think someones gonna miss you if your gone, and friends are temporary you will make more. If its becoming a big issue, move to a new town, start over in life and handle your problems well. Two of my friends attempted suicide (and failed) and I couldnt sleep through the night because I didnt know if they were ok. Dont do it, your life is important to someone.
Dear author, I feel saddened that you feel this way... I too have experienced these types of feelings, and it kills me... Oh, should have put that differently. But, I think the best thing to do is talk to your friends, if they admit to a dislike to you, whatever you do, DO NOT GO THROUGH WITH IT. Please, the world does not need more death... If your friends do say they don't like you, ask why, then, if the problem can not be fixed, find new friends, even cyber friends are helpful. :) I'd be glad to talk to you, [email protected]
God Bless.
xx
Imagine trying to end your life, however, instead of succeeding you just wind up worse. I have heard stories of people who have tried to shoot themselves in the head -- lived but not lived with half a face. ---- People who wind up in comas for years because of drug overdoses. --------
Go for it if you really want to, its your choice.
Nobody can tell you, you can or can't end your own life, its yours not theirs (not nessicarily telling "GO KILL YOURSELF EVERYONE HATES YOU!!") but if its what you truly want, do it.
Just don't die a virgin.
Find someone to buttsecks ASAP.
dont listen to them friend, they dont understand you must do it KILL YOURSELF KILL YOURSELF NOW!
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD!
I find it kind of funny, I find it kind of sad.
The dreams in which I'm dying are the best I've ever had.
It's a mad world.
consider odds for a moment, story poster. as many days as we are alive, months, years, we'll experience so many different things at different times. some are welcome, some aren't. at this time you're experiencing loneliness and rejection. think of the last really negative experience you had. HAD. are you still experiencing it. no. maybe it was a month, a year ago. but now is now. you're hurting again. but between then and now life was pretty good. so it will get good again. remember the joys you had by yourself, without your friends around. if you kill yourself you'd be robbing yourself of future good times spent alone. even without friends life is worth living. friends will come and go, even the best ones we meet. you will find good friends in time. presently i would suggest just jumping into a hobby that brings you pleasure and just chill out. there are people here that care about you tho we don't know you. i've been where you are and you have my sympathy. be patient and new better friends will come. being kind, helpful, generous and compassionate toward people will make you lots of friends. it's worked for me.
Yeah, im lonely too. I dont have alot of friends. Im just not a people person. But, don't kill yourself over it. Just deal with it and youll make friends over time. Believe it.
take care of yourself and the rest will follow. alot of people are lonely.
WHETHER OR NOT IF THIS IS ACTUALLY TRUE I DONT THINK REALLY MATTER 2 MUCH, HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF? I ACTUALLY THINK THAT MANY PPL ARE LIVING WITH VARYING LEVELS OF SOCIAL MENTAL INSTABILITY SO EVEN IF SOME OF YOUR FRIENDS SOMEHOW DIDNT LIKE YOU ONE MINUTE THEY WOULD MOST PROBABLY CHANGE THEIR MINDS THE NEXT
WHAT THE HECK IS NORMAL ANYWAYS?
ALSO ALL YOU NEED TO RELY ON IS YOURSELF BUT THERE IS GOTTA BE A DEEPER MEANING TO YOUR DREAM AND YOUR THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN UNDERSTAND THE TRUTH OF WHAT IS MEANS
People often have "phases" like this. You'll get over it, I have personal experience.
i sometimes feel the same way, ive tried to commit suicide before but failed i took lots of pills what i could find and took them all at the time my 'best friend' was bullying me and stuff was happening with my family. She isnt bullying me anymore but sometimes i feel worthless and that i should just get my life over and done with the feanyone eling is worse than could imagine
you will always have a friend in God - when I get lonely I talk to God..
but obviously God must be trying to get me to talk to others otherwise I wouldn't be on this site =) lol
I'll be your friend
here's my email
I may not be on much or at all i get on maybe once a week maybe more if lucky.
you're probably in school so yeah thats normal and all your friends are d-bags just talk shit to them and entertain yourself with it
i might think of that but only when i feel everyone is against me but i know i never will its just a daydream to make me feel better by imaging how they would respond to my dieing.
NOTHING MORE.
me too i think just like u i think that all my friends hate me too but only my best friend we r in every thing togather money,fights etc and friend come and go so be positive and make new ones
I once dreamt i was a huge robot dinosaur destroying happy land, it's best not to look into dreams too much. Oh, and cheer up for gods sake.
You make it seem as though you would be open to new friends if they weren't such incompatible personalities compared to your own. If that is the case then you must figure out why either people who outcast you don't like you or why you don't like them. hopefully you will notice a pattern, if so, then you have no problem at all, you just think differently(and possibly deeper, which could be the source) than most people in your school/workplace. My problem used to be that I just hated people who thought they were funny but really weren't. I had the exact same situation.
Please don't do it! No matter what you think, there are people who love you, and committing suicide would be selfish.
It's normal to feel like your friends don't like you (for certain personality types especially)... Work on yourself, have new hobbies separate from them so that you are happy to be with them but that you don't need them.
If you sit and do nothing you won't be able to stop thinking of the rejection. You'll start to turn on yourself. Fill your life up with things that make you happy so there isn't a void that you wish your friends would fill.
Feeling like killing yourself is very normal at times, especially during adolescent and teenage years, and most dreams are just our minds playing out possibilities. But you need to remember that 99%% of the people posting on this site are not equipped to really help with a question this serious.
Talk to a teacher, counselor, minister or someone you trust who is better suited to help you. That's the best way to find the best answers. Good luck!
Suicide because your friends don't like you? Or you think your friends don't like you? That's just plain spazztic. And selfish. I'm sure you have family that loves you, jeeze. You should seek proffessional help for sure, and maybe get on some anti-depressants
It's normal to dream about anything, I've dreamed some pretty fucked up stuff before. Dreaming is just the result of random eletrical impulses being fired from your brain's neurons and your brain putting a storyline together and trying to make sense of it all. Contrary to popular belief, it is now widely believed by scientists that dreams do not have any latent content, or deeper meaning. Just random shit.
don't be silly to take suicide only because your friends don't like you. I'd say FUCK THEM ALL. U really don't need human like them.
Story poster, you shouldn't ever play with 'life' on a public message board as people can say some very cruel things which I'm guessing is not particularly what you want to hear!
You're likely to be too young to have any "real" friends yet, anyhow. You want my advice? Tell your so called buddies to go FU*K themselves and move on - concentrate on yourself for a while instead of how others perceive you.
Don't kill yourself.omg please dont. i feel like that too sometimes, but killing yourself is not the answer. Just talk to them and if they say yes then forget them, you dont need friends that aren't really your friends. you'll soon find real friends. so don't kill yourself or cut
Please don't kill yourself. Suicide is a permanent solution for temporary problems. If your friends don't like you, then get new ones. Just remember that there is ATLEAST 1 person out there that cares about you.
Suicide is never the way to go. That just proves you are not strong enough to deal with what will most likely go away after a while.
It's normal. People have different tastes. You are not weird as you have your own style of music. Personally, I agree with you to the fact that it lacks talent.
I feel like my friends don't really like me either, but who cares, I don't other people when I have my son.
If your getting the feeling that your friends don't like you anymore just be like " hey im getting some werid vibe that you guys don't like me" if they say yes, I dont like you anymore then just find some new friends. rember friends come and go.
it isn't as easy as that, people can be good liars and it can be ard to distinguash the truth from a lie. also if you ask them if they like you then they may feel hurt and change the way they feel towards you.
in my opinoion the best thing to do is just keep a look out, maybe distance yourself more away from them and if they notice then they may tell you and you'll know that they do like you if not then try to get some new friends.
as for dreamin of sucide, in my opinion, death holds some sort of appeal to people and it is only natural to consider death, i think that it is pretty common and i wouldn't worry about it but remember that dreams are dreams and what you dream doesn't have to come true