Think everyone wants to have sex with me

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Every boyfriend I've ever had I have cheated on and felt no remorse and even forgot it even happened, it didn't mean I loved my parter any less I just couldn't help myself. My current boyfriend I have been with for about a year and actually met while cheating on my last boyfriend. I haven't ever loved someone like I love him and for the first time I haven't had any urges to cheat, up until recently when I had the opportunity to, and couldn't go through with it. Although I didn't do it I'm worried how long I can last. I know how horrible that sounds but ever since a co worker (who is also in a relationship) has been tempting me to cheat, I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I work with mostly males and almost all of them I end up comviced want to have sex with me, even if that maybe isn't the case. Has anyone else experienced this and would you classify it as sexual addiction? I should probably add the most messed up part, that I purposely imply I'd cheat on my boyfriend or talk about anything sexual around male co workers so that the will want to have sex with me.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Since you say you can't even remember some of the encounters, it doesn't sound like you're someone who really enjoys sex and wants to have as much as you can get.

    You say you couldn't help yourself. That's the definition of a compulsion. Irresistible urges - whether they're for chocolate, sex, or whatever - can cause serious problems, and the causes are often difficult to pinpoint.

    Is the sex actually that important to you? Maybe what you really crave is validation from guys? Do you think you have any value as a person, or do you only get the feeling of being valued when a guy is treating you as a sex object?

    Yes, the sexual teasing at work is pretty messed up, and it's probably not a good thing to do if you want to keep your job. But again, it sounds like what you're really doing is fishing for signs that the guys find you sexually attractive.

    You are probably right in thinking that most of your male co-workers would have sex with you if you offered, but that really doesn't make you anything special. I'm sure you know that guys are generally horny by nature, and a lot of them will happily screw whatever's on offer, particularly if it comes with no strings attached.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Yeah, that's pretty skanky, and messed up so you might actually be a sex addict. You should totally get help for the bullshit way that you are acting. Also if he catches you cheating I won't feel sorry for you if he dumps you , because that's what cheaters deserve. He's a dumb ass for being with you in the first place, because he was helping you cheat on someone else.

    Sorry, but I gotta be real, girl.

    Go check out this website.
    https://saa-recovery.org/

    If you wanna be happy, and have a good life you have to sober up. Fa real, yo!

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    U should poop and then put it on ur head

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    • Boojum
      6 years ago

      Yep, that would probably be a good deterrent to temptation.

      If she didn't want to be too flamboyant, she could just dab a little behind her ears.

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      • rayb12
        6 years ago

        Lolol

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    If Your good looking, most likely yes, people want you. But do you want them? If your with a good guy don't screw him over

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  • Hateful1
    6 years ago

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ENnAa7rqtBM

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