Things changed with my man

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half and at the begining our relationship was amazing, he was charming, patient, and extreamly caring. For several months now, he has distanced himself stopped complimenting me and our sex life has gone from 3 times aday to once every three weeks or more. I just feel like he is getting bored with me, that im not good enough. He barely even kisses me anymore, I have brought it up many times but he says that he just doesnt like to kiss anymore. Its almost like he woke up one day and was someone totaly different... I just need some advice.. HELP!

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  • jessica1068

    it sounds as if hes got something on his mind. i think that if he aint kissing you anymore then the love is gone. or maybe hes just confused about you,,,or even worse have somebody else behind your back because some men go off sex with you because they are having it elsewhere.

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  • seersucker

    This same exact problem happened to me and my boyfriend of a little over a year. We met when he was fifteen and I was fourteen but we were by no means a normal teenage couple. We were never apart and were incredibly infatuated with eachother. We never had a dull moment even when we just hung out at home, which is what we did most often. He treated me like a princess by bringing me flowers anytime we had to be apart and taking care of me and loving me. We planned out what college we were going to so we would never be far apart and planned on getting married as soon as we had enough money. Unfortunately, one day he randomly woke up and started treating me differently and day after day it got worse and worse. It affected me so badly because I was young and he was my best friend. We eventually broke up about two months later and now I see that he just fell out of love with me. It's awful and changed my whole outlook on love and relationships but most things just don't last forever.

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  • bimomate

    If your married this is normal. I don't know how many relationships I know of, they begin to die down, because they move in with each other. Also if hes distancing himself with you, I have seen that happen in so many relationships, I think he could be cheating on you.

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  • dazed101

    I dont know either, thats why I asked for help. :( Oh well, perhaps hes just getting bored of me?

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  • angryheros31863

    I kind of did the same thing to my boyfriend. I love him dearly but I dont kiss him as much and I just dont feel in the "mood". I hate this cause I dont want him to leave me for someone else but it may be a physcologiical problem I have that I want to test him to see if he will stay with me but I tell him Its not but idk.

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