Theres always a double standered with men and women?

It's just a label people have created. It's all retarded and people who are hardcore to this shit is just stupid. A girl can have sex when she wants, who fucking cares? Why would she be a ''whore'' because she has sex with someone and a guy not be a whore and having sex with twice the number that the girl is. It's her body and her choices. Same thing goes for a guy. Lastly, don't listen to this bullshit people say, do what you want with your body. That's my opinion anyways, say otherwise, I just don't care.

we live in a time we are not prepared for. we have evolved for millions of years to be a certain way, have certain survival instincts that has enabled us to survive. you can hate the way things are now but if you did one million years ago, chances are good that you wouldn't have survived.

that is how it used to be when not many women would jump in the sack right away, or at least they didn't admit to it. these days on the other hand, it is WAYYYY more common, and girls are beginning to be more open about it, and to me, is no more a double standard, though i think both sexes who do so should still be looked down upon. sex isn't something that should be thrown around like it's nothing, and it blows my mind when people get pregnant and are so shocked/devastated and get an abortion, sex = babies, been that way since the beginning of time, and you knew what you were getting into.

Because of history and social norms.

Have you looked at what women dealt with through history? Life sucked hard then and now it simply sucks less. It still sucks.

Reason: Testosterone and Estrogen.
Normal for guys to be sluts in their 20's.
Normal for girls to want to wait, because most girls see sex as special, and it's more of a mental thing rather than a physical thing.
Until they're like 35, when their estrogen drops and testosterone takes over. That's where you get cougars. And I don't consider them to be sluts. It's all biology.

You're absolutely right about the double standard. I don't know if this helps in any way, but Christina Aguilera made a great song about this: Can't hold us down
"If you look back in history
It's a common double standard of society
The guy gets all the glory the more he can score
While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore"

Double standards go both ways. Sometimes it's men who get the shitty end of the stick. I find it's much easier to just live with it rather than get angry about it.

For the 1 double standard you mentioned, I personally think that women are the ones perpetuating it; in a sense. Men are ok with there guy friends to sleep around and won't give them shit for it while women will give their women friends a hard time for it.

It's far from every women who will go for the guy who sleeps around a lot. Just as it is far from every man that will disrespect a woman who do. There are many, many men who understand that women like having fun to. Many men are ok with it and will still go for a relationship if love is in the air.

Sometimes, when sex is had too quick, there is no time to see the other person as a relationship potential. It is not necessarily a view on the person but rather of how things went.

Yes your mostly correct, but it seems to be changing with each year that passes. Not really something to get upset about, just be discreet!