The wrong people given a great gift.

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Hi i have been ttc for quite some time now, and no such luck as of yet, except i am 2 days late, lets keep our fingers crossed! But, anyway, there is a baby-boom amongst my town or something, for everyone is announcing that they are pregnant. I am genuinely happy for a few of them, because i am so sure that they will be great parents, but it sickens me that some people were blessed with such a gift. I see pregnant girls/women in the local bars almost everynight getting drunk, smoking weed, and engaging in other activities that just ARENT SAFE for the baby. One girl even tried "aborting" the baby herself by hitting herself with a liquor bottle at a party!!! It completely disgusts me that people care so little about something so important, but here I am praying everynight that the cards fall in my favor, and no luck yet. Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think that it is completely normal to feel this way. It's not at all wrong to be upset that people are taking for granted the gift that you long for so strongly. I advise you to pray about it. You may or may not be of the Christian faith, but I find that I am almost always more peaceful when I leave things in the hands of the Lord.

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    I'm praying that you'll conceive it seems like all it takes for some women to get pregnant is a one night stand in the backseat of a car its normal to think they don't deserve such a precious gift keep us posted let us know if you're gonna be a mommy good luck

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    My sister-in-law did the drug thing when she was pregnant. The baby was born and lived 6 days. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior when you are responsible for a human being.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      exactly, and it makes me so sick that people just take something like that for granted or just don't care at all. there are people who would do anything for a child, especially me.

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  • skyhuh24
    13 years ago

    Do I pray if i'm atheist?

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  • DES
    13 years ago

    I have two of my own and love them to death when I was perg with my first so was a friend and she did everything bad it would kill me to wonder how her child would come out but there are opetions tests to see when would be a good time to get preg good luck to you and remember have fun don't male it a have to

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  • bones
    13 years ago

    Amen corn.

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