The thought of losing my virginity to somebody with a kid repulses me

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I'm almost 27, a virgin -yes, folks! THAT is another question entirely that I'll just forget about,for now!- and I cannot stomach the though of my first time being with somebody who has a child. It just really makes my skin crawl! With as sexually inexperienced as I am, I get physically ill at the idea of losing my virginity to somebody in which one of their experiences lead to procreation. I want to lose my virginity to somebody who has NO kids. But the more time goes on and the older I get, I panic even more; I worry I won't be able to find somebody who doesn't have a kid.
Truthfully, I'm very attracted to younger men. That being said, another good thing about having somebody much younger is that they'll be that much less likely to have a kid. The reason why all of this worries me so much is because I'm full of hormones, very frustrated sexually, and BADLY want to experience sex. If I never find somebody with no kids, then I'll never get to have sex. :(

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    So your problem is that you don't want a man that once came inside an other woman without protection?

    You want to be his first experience in that?

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  • Shmendan
    5 years ago

    Basically, anything that is normal is rated not normal on this site.

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  • Shmendan
    5 years ago

    This seems very normal and common from what I have seen. Why are peopke rating it not normal? Must be because of all the “strange ones” on this site.

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  • Palestine_Did_Nothing_Wrong
    5 years ago

    Give your number to a young man working someone and they’ll call you (if you’re attractive enough). It’s easy to find someone.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    You're not that old, honey! If you don't want to lose your virginity to someone like that then don't get involved with someone like that. I personally think you should save yourself for someone you love, and who loves you. I know that premarital sex is the norm in society right now, and that casual sex us not a big deal for a lot of people, but don't treat your virginity like it's something you have to just get rid of like that. Love yourself, and don't give yourself to anyone who doesn't love you. Try to be the best person you can be, and look for someone who is doing the same.

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    • gettheshovel
      5 years ago

      Unfortunately, that would further complicate things for me cause I'm aromantic, prefer to stay single, happy on my own. I really don't want a serious relationship. But I'm still a human, am curious about sex, and have strong sexual desires thus would like to experience it.

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