The real point of a relationship and so on ( real answers please)

For me, a relationship is being with my best friend and lover all the time. It is up to you to keep it fresh and exciting; it isn't magic.
Sex is always better if you know someone well; knowing what they like makes it much easier to please them, which is very rewarding.
A good relationship is a partnership; you are part of an exclusive team of two and together you can change the world.

The real point of a relationship depends on the individual you're asking. I doubt there's a one-size-fits-all response.

Okay man, I decided to come back with some deeper thoughts. A relationship is not about being "happy ever after". As my Italian professor used to say, happiness is overrated. Were you always happy with your mother? No. All relationships are meant to have ups and downs. A relationship is about choosing to be with someone, bonded for life, who is not biologically related to you. Everyone else in your life was basically given to you (your mom, your dad your sister, cousins, etc.), but with a relationship you finally get a chance to choose a person you want a deep bond with. It's a test of your intelligence, free will, intuition perseverance and probably some other shit too. Therefore, choosing a mate (and keeping them, remaining content with your choice) is significantly more difficult than simply accepting the biological family you were gifted with. If you do it right (and by right I mean by your own means and convictions, not these bland societal expectations you have described) it becomes a beautiful challenge. Most people who find a well-balanced relationship and work to keep it (and it is a lot of work) find this nourishing to the soul. Especially around old age when all of your friends are dead and yo become lonely. Eventually this person you choose becomes your life partner and helps you fight the obstacles of life. Two are more powerful than one.

Then don't stay with someone once you get bored! I'd never stay with someone once the passion have died out. I'm in a relationship now and as long as it's fun and rewarding along with the love I feel I'll stay.

I'm reluctant to kids since that's a huge commitment and it would tie me to a man.

I'm in a relationship because I love him and because it feels right, not saying that it will feel right forever but at the moment it does. He is even more open minded than what I am and we almost have 100%same interest in bed, those he can't share with me am I free to seek elsewhere with his consent. ( Not going to rush that one thing)

It's all silly in my opinion -.-

Marriage is not for everyone, And does require sacrifice. What I get from my husband is emotional support, financial support, and someone to talk too. Who really knows me, and understands me. And is willing to put up with me when Im in a hormonal rage. The sex is ok, but I mostly like to please him. And he tries to please me but. I was on birth control pills for 10 years. And it really messed up my ability to have a grand orgasm. Which sucks. But if im horny, I just play with myself. But if you don't wanna be with the same person for all eternity than don't bother getting married.

You kind of remind me of myself. I am having a hard time getting into long relationships mainly because I think, "what is the point..."

I fall for smart guys who are going somewhere in life. I am going to be somewhere too, and I feel like no one I meet is going to follow my path. After the head over heels phase, I feel deeply discontent and guilty. I am not phrasing any of this right ...i am sorry haha.

I have a hard time sticking to one guy. I hear ya about your worst nightmare, and if I meet a guy who likes me, I instantly want to go for it. I think about all the experiences I would miss if I stuck to the same old, and I don't like this about myself honestly. Its complicated. If I sort it all out, I will get back to you! I am not a cheater, more of a floater, who goes to guy to guy on a whim, chasing new experiences and excitement. And ya know...i do not like it anymore.

You get a good track record.

Maybe you just haven't found the right kind of person

you've just never dated the right person so you're yet to really experience what being in love feels like. when you fall in love with someone all you wanna do is move in with them and marry them and have babies with them it's all very exciting when you're completely head over heels for your mate

I'm in a relationship and happy with it. I feel like I always have someone who listens and cares about what I say, who loves me and we have good sex.