The guy friend

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So I have a very close guy friend (best friend) and sometimes I find myself attracted to him. He's not really my type, and I love him so much. (as a friend of course) but I also catch myself thinking of him as more than that. And when I do, it's weird, not the way I noramlly think about someone I like. It's like.... I like the idea of being with him... and at the same time I don't. I think maybe it's just because we're so close? But I'm also bi, so wouldn't the same thing happen with my best girl friend if that were true? It might also help that I haven't dated anyone in about 8 months. What should I do, what does it mean, and is it normal?

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    drug him and then have sex with him =D always works for me!

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    Not your type? You ever hear the expression "opposites attract?" It's actually quite true from my experience.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    For anyone who commented and cares, I started daring him almost 2 months ago and he's the best boyfriend i've ever had!!! :)!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    IMO?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Mainly just accept that you have feelings for him as more than a friend. You don't HAVE to do anything about that just because you feel that. I think you are having trouble accepting these feelings because you think you then need act on them. Those are 2 different issues IMO.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    make out with him and see if what you feel while and after.

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  • Proudfear
    14 years ago

    talk to him about it

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