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I am a woman, and I am intrigued by the idea of sex ... from behind. I think the idea of a threesome with two men - one in front and one in back - is hot. I casually let my bf see a butt plug that I had just bought, and he didn't even comment on it. First off, is it normal for women to be into this (I'm pretty sure it is), and second off are most men into the idea. If he didn't comment does it mean that he thinks the idea is gross, isn't into it, or that he just wouldn't be the one to bring the idea up? I would love to hear from men on this.

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  • Legion
    9 years ago

    i would have no problem with that. Id like to see that, honestly

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  • Clarkson123
    11 years ago

    I think you have a very strong sex drive and are healthy and normal. Anal sex is a very pleasurable act if done correctly. Please take the time to share your fantasies with your husband,and read about anal sex (start with anal play only), once you find that he enjoys playing with you anus and see the pleasure it gives you then let him do you up the ass ! If he is like any other man, he will love it .With time and much practice and joy ,tell him you want another real dick to fill you up at the same time he is in you . He may say yes !!

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Casual butt plug? :) I don't think that anyone's called a butt plug casual before.

    You are normal.

    But I do know when some women bring a toy (or a second man) their partner might feel like they can't satisfy her.

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  • Cosmicgiggle
    13 years ago

    Most women complain that anal sex is painful, frightening, and absent of pleasure . A lot of men give up trying to get her to do that, but some like it. Apparently your one of them. Actually, most men that I've known love it when their special woman let's them come from behind. Maybe in your case, introduce the sex toy slowly. Use it in front and just for a while. As he gets used to it being a part of your sex lives, gradually introduce it to your behind. I think if done gradually, he will either take to it or let you know that he doesn't like it BEFORE you get to a point where his saying so would be a quantum humiliation. Sorry so long on this one,

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    • analsexonly
      7 years ago

      Most women who complain about those things haven't had anal sex with a partner who knew what he was doing, or didn't read up on how to have anal sex beforehand. Anal is one of those things where done right it will be the best sex you've ever had, and done wrong it will be incredibly painful and unpleasant.

      The trick for most women is to start very small, with a single lubricated finger and masturbate with it anally while rubbing your clit at the same time. Masturbate to orgasm while fingering your ass. It might feel weird the first few times, but it's also likely to result in a powerful orgasm. Repeat this regularly. As it starts to feel good and not so weird, try adding a second finger. Continue going up in size as you feel comfortable with each size of penetration, and after you run out of fingers you can easily fit, try a small dildo or butt plug, then a larger one. Go through this process for a few weeks to a month and you'll soon be ready to try anal sex with a partner who you trust. Warm up from small sizes again beforehand and then slowly insert him into your ass. If it starts to hurt, pause a moment in place before resuming, then when he's fully inside pause again to adjust around him before starting to fuck slowly. Play with your clit during all of this.

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  • ohfuckit100000000000000
    14 years ago

    Personally the idea of sharing my wife of 17 years either with a dildo or another man excites me, i have explained this to her to find that the idea arouses her too. I'm not sure about real life scenario of another man but we definately enjoy using her dildo and find it very arousing. Saying that i dont think i'd have been so open minded when i was younger and suspect this may be the case for many people.. i think i have definately become more open minded with age, i do remember suggesting lesbian fantasies to my wife many years ago to her disgust but these did no harm to our relationship as now she's a filthier mind than mine... tell him how you feel, i'm sure if he loves you he'll get over his apprehension in time (thats if he doesn't go strait for your plug)

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  • manofanger
    14 years ago

    Personaly as a man i think anal is disgusting but i really think thats just me so you're normal

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    • analsexonly
      7 years ago

      It's not *just* you, but that opinion is rapidly fading, fortunately. All sex is potentially gross, but done correctly anal sex is not gross at all. If you don't want to try it, fair enough, but you're missing out.

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  • GrandAm
    15 years ago

    I think it's very normal, but then any sex that's consensual is normal. I have never done this, but would have no problem sharing you with another guy. He might not like the idea of being with another guy,, but if you insist on it, he might come around.

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