That overly think about my girlfriend who gives me headaches:(

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its been 4 whole years since we are in a relationship..
We believe we love eachother so much. 24/7 txting, calling eachother inbetween work aswell. so much craziness people get annoyed by us , coz we are always using our phones.
i live in a consevative country thats why its difficult to be together or meet on daily basis , we meet like once in a week.
the problem is once she had mildly cheated on me in the third year of our relation. but i caught that made her realise, she admitted, appologised and i being the bigger person accepted and continued..
but now i have been so crazy, i knw her password to facebook , i check that, check her mails, thinking that if she does that again , i never show her that i open her facebook or mails.
sometimes i am so fed up of her that i want a break.
but then again , she doesnt let me and i get weak aswell when i think about leaving her.
out of a month the only good days are 8 to 10. but rest are fights , headaches , arguing etc. EVEN ON TXTING ARGUMENTS AND FIGHTS.

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  • x1frosty16
    11 years ago

    Some things permanantly damage relationships and theirs just no coming back from, In order to be happy you have to be able to live with what she did and get over it, Or if you cannot let it go it may be best to just end the relationship.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I would agree with Energy if she hadn't already broken your trust. I went through a similar situation with my ex. I was with him for 4 1/2 years and he mildly cheated in the 2nd year. Now that I'm out of the relationship I realized he had killed it long ago. We were just dragging it on... I think that's what you two are doing. You're past the point of no return. Its her fault, not yours. You need to get yourself out of this situation and start thinking about yourself for a while. She's not good for your health

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Normal and not normal. You shouldn't compulsively check her shit so much. Sounds like you guys might need a break.

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