That my sister....

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I have a problem with my younger sister...I love her to death and recently I am in a relationship with an older man. He is 26 and is a bit on the heavier side, but I love him anyway because he treats me right and his physical aspects don't change that at all. I am 18 and I know that is young, but I'm mature for my age. My problem is, that she hates him because he called her a brat. She does this to every guy I like and said he judged her and whatnot. But it started with her judging him because he's not thinner and he has a nerdy side to him. I'm kind of up to here with it. Can anyone tell me what to do abut it?

Talk to her. 46
Why are you with an older man? 25
I want to comment. 7
I think she's just scared her lder sister will forget her. 36
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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago

    Your sister sounds like mine..
    Whiney.. Lil overly concerned.. Just kinda annoying.
    Your man probably shouldn't have called her a best though.

    Their both in the wrong in my opinion.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    LOL

    I find it hilarious when people say "I'm mature for my age".

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    I second NiceKitty. They're both wrong. Your little sister needs to mind her own business and respect your relationship. (If she's old enough to be capable of this...) Your man, on the other hand, probably needs to appologize to her for calling her names.

    Then you can ALL get over it because it only gets worse from here on out and you're all acting like babies.

    Signed, A Married Woman

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      That's the problem, he did apologize and admit he was out of line after I discussed it and told him that he shouldn't have called her that, now my sister doesn't want anything to do with him...it's just tiring. I want them to get along, but my younger sister doesn't even want to deal....it just makes me sad as her older sister.

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      • MissyLeyneous
        11 years ago

        If she wants to be a baby then let her be a baby. You can't *force* her to like him. It's best to just let it go and wait for her to grow up some more.

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  • bemah
    11 years ago

    Talking doesn't sound like it will help, only because she sounds quite stubborn, and going about it that way would only make her worse. But if she's more mature than that, then go ahead, talking will probably help.

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  • Coolieo
    11 years ago

    I agree with MissyLeyneous :)

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  • Hermione333
    11 years ago

    She loves you and she wants the best for you: at her age (younger than 18), that means looks looks looks!

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    I agree with NiceKitty :)

    After reading the comments, I think your little sister is more in the wrong because at least your boyfriend tried.

    I voted for "Talk to her" and I think she might be scared of losing you too. It might not work, but maybe if you sat down with her and tried to have a mature conversation with her (if you haven't already. It sounds like you may have tried though) in a way that she will understand how much you love your boyfriend, but also how much you care about her and would like it so much if she could give him another chance. Maybe she will come around. Maybe not. If not though, that sounds like her problem to me.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    She's a brat. I don't have a sister but I think I'm pretty happy about that.

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