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Is it normal that my boyfriend is indifferent to my kinky side? I like watching porn with him, sex at work (in the car), toys, possibly making a video, lingerie, sexting... And butt stuff on occasion. He knows any one of these would really get me going but... No go. Am I too kinky or what?
No your not too kinky ...he just isn't into the same things...but as your partner he should compromise with you...what does he like? Maybe you can do something he really likes in exchange for something you really like.
What a waste. Sex freaks are always thrown at them who cannot capitalize on them. People like you are a virgin's wet dream and he just... Man this just pisses me off.
It doesn't even sound kinky to me. He is just very dull in bed, or into other things...
Your kinks are mild, as you say. Nothing out of the ordinary in any of that. The problem is with your boyfriend, not with you
Your boyfriend sounds like a selfish cunt.
Hold back on the never ending blowjobs until you get yours.
Or get a boyfriend that wants to get you off.
Shit, for me, getting a girl off is a huge turn on. There's times I'll get my girlfriend off without anything in return at the time.
& none of what you're asking is weird or even at all difficult.
Would you be saying the same if OP was male complaining about his girlfriend not indulging his mild kinks?
Would you say 'your girlfriend sounds like a selfish cunt'?
Genuinely curious.
Um, yeah, I would. That's just me...
I probably wouldn't use the word cunt as I don't generally use the word lightly towards women (well, there's one special case), but I would still tell the OP that they're seemingly with a selfish lover.
Nothing the OP mentions is difficult & I couldn't imagine offensive to many people. Couples should be sexually compatible to a certain degree.
So yes if OP was male, his girlfriend wanted her needs met with endless oral but wouldn't consider doing things to get him off I'd say they were selfish!
You wouldn't?
Uhh he likes never ending blowjobs and me doing all the work haha. That's what he gets
Um, he might not be into that stuff as much as you are. But no, you're not too kinky.
Some people just have a wild side. I'm one of them. I have a bf, but he doesn't like EVERYTHING I like, and visa-versa. He is a good person, and a terrific lover, but I have another guy that I ONLY use for a few sexual kinks (another town and not serious), and I get my fix without making my BF uncomfortable. I think, with time, my bf will be my every kink-man. I hope the same happens with you and your bf.