That i don't cum during sex?

31% Normal
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I'm a 25 year old guy just married. I don't masterbate anymore but I used to kind of alot & I've only had sex with my wife. Basically two wierd things have been going on. The 1st- im always horny but I don't get hard, even If I see a Porno or something I get horny but not hard I only get hard by touch now. The 2nd- I love sex & it feels good but I can't cum during sex I have to use my hand to cum. Are these things normal?

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31% Normal
Based on 55 votes (17 yes)
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  • alnorth36
    7 years ago

    lucky your wife!!! My husband cums in 2 minutes and then tries to make orgasem with his tongue, fingers and sex toys, but it never feels like a hard
    cock cums inside me...!!

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  • Para-Normal
    9 years ago

    Easy fix most likely. Erectile dysfunction.

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  • Cosmicgiggle
    13 years ago

    Ad many others state: you've got erectile dysfunction and possibly questionable testosterone levels (frequent occurence). Check it out

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  • beingstrange
    14 years ago

    and .. good luck

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  • beingstrange
    14 years ago

    you should see a doctor and discuss your problem with him/her. If possible, get a second opinion as well. Have them run all the tests that are 'relevant' to your problem and/or test for the possible causes. It may become costly with or w/o insurance, but either finding out the problem and fixing it, and/or finding out about something "more serious" (diabetes, circulatory problems, urological probs, etc) could be and may very well be worth the price.

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  • amassivecamel
    14 years ago

    erective dysfunction, lots of peple get it

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  • Resip
    14 years ago

    Everyone is different.

    As a girl, I can only cum when I do it myself too, tho the husband helps

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  • Beanzie
    14 years ago

    No im not on any medication what so ever. I eat pretty healthy & exercise alot & im still pretty young so I wouldnt think diabetes. & because I run alot my blood pressure is lower than most.

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  • BlueLightGay
    14 years ago

    Are you taking any medications that will kill boners? Call your urologist tomorrow and book an appointment. You may have diabetes, medicine interactions, high blood pressure, or other medical cause of your ED.

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  • RedSheep.com
    14 years ago

    Eretal Disfuntion. :)

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  • thegift
    12 years ago

    Nelson (from the simpsons) : HAH HAH

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