Tell why the fuck its so hard to get a date off a dating site

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Sick and tired of wasting over 1 year on dating sites to find a girl to date when no one flirts, engages in conversation or asks to meet up even when we match. If I were looking for a guy its esy af because most are desperate and horny enough to chase a chick just for her pussy. Obviously lesbians must operate differently, I guess they are Not driven by their vagina unlike men with their cocks?

Example I matched with this chick on bumble who is definitely gay, I told her I saw her and her ex at the lez club, shes like come say hi next time, I said or we could meet sooner

She said definitely, go for a walk or something, then we added each other on Instagram, chatted very briefly, asked her what she does for work? No reply, asked her want to catch up next weekend? She finally saw my message and 0 reply

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    My opinion is this -
    A lot of people on dating sites are not serious about putting forth any actual effort to get off their ass and date. It is kind of like people who are hoping to get rich by playing the lottery.

    And plus -
    The selection sucks I mean Jesus Christ you get these people who were clearly NOT beaten by the pretty stick. Back hair, ingrown toenails, black grease under their nails, nose hair long enough to braid, and that is just how bad the women look. The men, oh my gyod they look like something on America's most wanted.

    The ones who are NOT gross enough to be a genetic experiment are typically fakes.

    IN short - using dating sites is basically dumpster diving for romance.

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    You can't catch a date in real life or on the internet? Damn.

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    • geek_god_101
      4 years ago

      It's a hard reality to accept isn't it?

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  • myfreakinopinion
    4 years ago

    It's a digital bar.

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  • IceRed
    4 years ago

    Get a date off of a video game or something lol

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  • Fluteplayer101
    4 years ago

    I use dating sites on and off just to try my luck and me being a girl, the guys are also very bland, don’t respond or become uninterested quickly. I have made a few friends from the site and actually have found someone I’m still talking to. But, dating apps are like 99% hook ups and like 1% relationships. It’s rare and hard to find something serious online. Try your luck in real life don’t waste your time

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    This is why I lower my standards to zero hit it once and then increase the standards by 1.
    I'm not a good person.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Everyone on dating sites wants models...

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      4 years ago

      Pretty much. There were so many guys and gals on dating sites I went to that were like this. I messaged people with similar incomes, looks, interests and education level(I had no college education) and they told me they wanted someone who made more, went to college, or wanted someone better looking. Then there were the people who were jobless, lazy, liked fucking animals, were mentally handicapped, or had 5-7 kids. They'd get so upset when I said no to them. Dating sites are toxic as fuck. XD

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      • curious-bunny
        4 years ago

        You make it sound like liking animals is a bad thing -smiley face-

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        • Cuntsiclestick
          4 years ago

          Yeah, I don't fuck animals and I don't date or hang out with others that do. They saw the words "bisexual" in my profile and assumed I was some sort of cum dumpster that would do anyone or anything. Though if they took the time to read my entire profile, they would've realised I wasn't a walking stereotype. XD

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            4 years ago

            Loving 2 genders and beastiality are entirely two different concepts

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            • Cuntsiclestick
              4 years ago

              I wish they knew that. I'd say I wasn't interested in the things they asked for(fucking an animal, gangbangs, shitting on them, three ways, etc) and these dudes were dumbfounded enough to ask me why a bisexual wouldn't do it. XD

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          • curious-bunny
            4 years ago

            Hah a yea I've met those guys, they are frustrating and it takes all of 2 seconds to find out they didn't look at your profile wich always pisses me off cause you can't message people without scrolling past there bio 90% of the time

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            • Cuntsiclestick
              4 years ago

              To me, it just says that not only do these dudes lack basic reading skills, they're desperate and have no clue how to talk to women. Wading through the shit infested water of guys and gals on there was a nightmare.XD

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