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I've hung out with her 3 times and everytime she smells of body odour. She works two jobs. I'm not sure if she is always like this. When we were I public tho I think if people smell her and it makes me feel like a dirtbag. How could I bring it up with out being to direct and offending her??
Maybe bring it up in a nonchalant or joking manner. Or maybe you could say she smells like the place she works at if it's like say a restataunts or something and that won't be as offensive as just saying she smells.
At the end of the day you're doing her a favor by alerting her much like when you tell someone they have a visible booger in their nose or food stuck in their teeth. If She's so touchy to get insulted, you're probably better off not being with her anyways.
try this: hey you stink why not grab a shower. its direct not pretentious and effectively communicates your feelings
Maybe just ask if she's okay? Tell her you can smell her, but you like hanging with her and you're wondering if you can help her clean up somehow. You don't really get to decide if she gets offended, but as long as you're framing it from the reasonable perspective of caring about her rather than it being somehow offensive or shameful you'll probably just get your answer. In my experience being direct takes people off guard before it offends them, so as long as you're being honest they can't really fault you for caring. Who knows? Maybe she just doesn't have a deoderant stick on hand after working all day.