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I used to have problems going to sleep, so i started to do this thing where i day dream while in bed. I have never finished a daydream and i fall asleep pretty quickly. however sometimes i think about marrying and having a family and kids, the whole nine, with one of my friends. I am going to visit him soon, ( he lives hours away) and i am giddy as can be. Maybe i am thinking into this too much but is it normal that i do that, or is it like omg stalkerish/creepy?

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  • Thatguy777
    13 years ago

    It's completely normal. I wouldn't ever be able to sleep otherwise

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  • Godscommielamb
    14 years ago

    its perfectly normal and if he likes ya back then go for it
    a wise man once said
    never date a man whome would not be your friend if he were a woman

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  • gabrielvillamayor
    14 years ago

    dont give that dream-up.

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  • Simply_Abnormal
    14 years ago

    If it's love go for it, if its strange fanstasy or desperation, leave it be.

    It is however normal to fancy a friend :) Make sure it is right though or you might just be ruining it.

    Yeah, if your not with him yet, then...it's bit strange/stalkerish

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  • Jadey
    14 years ago

    DO that long enough and you wont dream it anymore, it will be a reality. I used to dream about my daughter all the time before she was born. And I can almost swear she looks exactly how i dreamed her to look. Weird but sometimes its signs.

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  • k_s79
    14 years ago

    So glad I'm not the only one. I have trouble "switching off" so most nights that's how I get to sleep. I guess it's like I'm distracting my brain from the reality of the day so I can relax enough to fall asleep. I've always looked at like I'm telling myself bedtime stories (which have gotten somewhat x-rated at times the older I get!) ;-)

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  • mkaidd
    15 years ago

    it's not stalkerish because you're not acting on it, and it's not creepy as long as you're not telling him about it, ya know? our thoughts are our own business so as long as you don't get really emotionally invested in irrational ideas, daydreaming like that is fine.

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    • chucktownbluv
      15 years ago

      Are you a girl? If so, I guess it's normal. If you're a guy, then yes it's creepy/stalkerish/gay.

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      • iAmanda
        14 years ago

        hahaa, i'm with ya.

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  • MapleSyrup
    15 years ago

    Normal dear, after-all everyone has hopes for the future, and picturing them is all you can do until they happen. If they happen.

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  • midori
    15 years ago

    No it is normal lots of people do the same thang.

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