Tell me i'm not falling for my cousin? is it normal & how do i stop?

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Okay we haven't known each other long at all. We text all the time though, like every couple days to a week. She often says she's thinking of me & always tells me I'm funny. Sometimes she even greets me with "Hey you" via text. Tbh, I think she's so beautiful, funny, kind & caring. I can't stop thinking about her. Its like I'm infatuated. I'm also a lady...What do I do? How do I stop this crush I have that's getting pretty intense? is it normal she says these things? I'm pretty sure she's being friendly....

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  • Hisoka
    7 years ago

    Don't freak with these comments. Ok yeah it's weird but it isn't that uncommon. Infact, it's secretly pretty damn common. My sisters first love was her cousin. He lived all the way in a different country so it wasn't like close close family. It was weird but I don't judge them for it. don't push your feelings away or it will get more intense. Just try and accept your feelings and act natural. Cousins are intimate yet distant. It can get confusing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thank you! Honestly, I wouldn't choose to feel this way. Its like it just hit me.
      I have been asking myself, why am I always thinking of her? I have only fallen for someone once, she was a long term friend. I hate to admit, but these feelings are similar...
      I just remember denying my feelings I had for my friend that time because I don't want to be lesbian. I will try to accept my feelings & hopefully its just a phase. I understand that if I push it away, it'll most likely get stronger. Thanks for being non judgemental :)
      I am even shocked with myself at these feelings. I rarely feel love for a person so when it hits me, its uncanny..

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      • Hisoka
        7 years ago

        Trust me. I always get feelings for the wrong person. Somehow it Spurs it on I don't know. I got romantic feelings for my best friend in school (female too). I swear my heart is attracted to unlikely romance. So annoying. It kinda makes it interesting the fact that it is 'taboo'. I'm still trying to understand my sexuality but it takes a lot of self acceptance to be able to love someone fully. I don't know. Now I have a thing for my boss so I'm hoping that disappears too haha

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  • Lost123
    7 years ago

    For fucks sake! You know it's wrong !Why do you want to gross us out for,Christ on a cracker,Holy Shit!

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  • Lost123
    7 years ago

    When she says "your funny",it's not a compliment ,dumb ass!Go out and get layed,not with your cousin,and quit grossing us out damnit!!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Oh grow up! She genuinely does think I'm funny. Im not thinking sexual shit, I just feel a strong connection & genuinly love her. Obviously, am just curious if its romantic. There's a difference.

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      • Lost123
        7 years ago

        We'll I'm not one to "confirm"someone's fantasy.If there is DNA involved people sometimes confus it with a sexual thing,and end up making a huge mistake,that they will regret the rest of their lives!I suppose...feeling awkward afterwards.That would be a self created HELL.Self imposed!

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    • ysir
      1 year ago

      Bro got straight to the point

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