Talking dirty has got me thinking about my girlfriends sexuality

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Hi,

I am about to get into a relationship with a girl from work. We are both 26 and we have been in at least 1 or 2 serious relationships already - so we are pretty clued up emotionally. We get on brilliantly and we both feel the same about each other...

Our sex life is really good...considering we have only just started getting together. My only concern is that when I talk dirty (something I have always enjoyed doing and im good at it) - she does like it when I talk about her being seduced about another girl - licking/playing...she loves it and she comes really quickly. You may be thinking BRILLIANT! but it does make me wonder if I am the sexual experience she is wanting or is it another girl etc? She likes me talking about cock too.....and maybe it's just the fantasy and the 'unknown' that turns her on.

My insecurity is that I have no homo-bi sexual tendencies so I don't really understand it very well. Do most girls enjoy this sort of chit chat? I don't have a problem with it at all because it's still sex between me and her and that's exclusive. I like exclusivity in relationships...I happen to think that sex is the one thing you can really share with the person you love - and the harder you work at being good at it the less reasons you need to get anyone else involved. Not everyone will agree and that's fine. Each to their own relationships. I suppose my fear is - what if fantasy becomes a reality and do I have anything to worry about in terms of her sexuality if this one day does become an option she wants to explore? She has been in a situation with a previous guy and a girl...she told me the girl went down on her but 'she' (my girlfriend) didn't want to touch her because it felt really fake. She was drunk and she went along with it. I suppose its just my insecurities on show here. I really like this girl..

Is this normal? 3
Should I worry about it from a long term relationship perspecivtive 0
Do girls enjoy guys talking dirty about other girls/guys 1
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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    She might be Bi or curious, or perhaps it's just a bit of a fantasy. I wouldn't worry, if she's with you it's because she want's to be with you.

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    Do most g.

    Definitely do most g.

    So she's probably bisexual. It's a fantasy she's enjoying with YOU. And it's great she's comfortable with that - if it was something you should worry about, I doubt she'd like you including it in the dirty talk.

    Because she's bisexual doesn't mean she'll cheat. It makes no difference. If she's loyal and committed, if she loves you and wants to be in a monogamous relationship with you, if she enjoys the sex you have together, who cares?

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    She's probably Bi. Bi girls are awesome, enjoy.

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    • disthing
      10 years ago

      More 'awesome' than straight or gay girls? :/

      I don't think sexuality makes a person superior or inferior.

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      • handsignals
        10 years ago

        Yes you are correct. It was morally wrong of me to have an opinion which may differ to that of others. Thank you for teaching me to be a better person.

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        • disthing
          10 years ago

          Oh handsignals.

          I'm just curious why you'd think bisexual girls, specifically, are awesome? It suggests a preference. Of course, you're entitled to a preference. But what makes a girl's bisexuality awesome?

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  • Barugel_Azulay
    10 years ago

    You should not worry. If a girl seems to like both, reality is that no woman will ever replace a dick, so lesbo fantasies, even if coming true eventually, will never be more than foreplay, or an addition to the stuff that really matters to her.

    The concern should be in case it was the other way around, if it was the guy who seemed to like both, because of the same reason: no woman will ever replace a dick, so no matter how hard he tries, being with a woman will never be more than foreplay, or an addition to the stuff that really matters to him.

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