Taking someone advatage

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I have a guy friend and we have the same interest about playing badminton.
He is middle thirty and we have about 10 years differ.
We play the badminton and after that we hang out all day long.
Someone important talked to me that I don’t like this guy, so stay away from him.
After that I started to realize he might like me and I feel dangerous.
I am doing some moves about ignoring this person.
During a while of timing, I know it was wrong but I take action to connect this guy.
Now, I regret it …. . I decide to ignore him again.
I see we can’t be friend if he still has feeling.
Still I can’t control myself to get advantage from him.
Is it normal?
It's bad.
How do people control themselves not to do this things to others?

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Based on 11 votes (3 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • Rainbowbash
    8 years ago

    ... I wish I could help, but you need help with English... I'm actually being legit about saying this.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    What?

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    You can't just play Badminton with a guy and not think that things won't start to get romantic.

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    • butterflyred
      8 years ago

      Do you mean that if I keep spend time with him things might start getting romantic?
      That's totally not the result I want to have.

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    • NeofelisNebulosa
      8 years ago

      I hate seeing you get downvoted. Why does no one ever get your sense of humor? Has no one heard of sarcasm before?

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  • Rihyae
    8 years ago

    Let him know that you just want a platonic friendship. Or drop hints, call him your "badminton buddy".

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    • butterflyred
      8 years ago

      That's good idea ~thankss

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    Are you a male or female? you never said one way or the other.

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    • butterflyred
      8 years ago

      i am female

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      • jethro
        8 years ago

        So what is wrong with the guy? Why do you feel you took advantage of him?

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        • butterflyred
          8 years ago

          Simple saying, I sense that he like me.(unsure..he is thirty something without girlfriend)
          I still hang out with him alone until someone talk to me not doing that.
          I confuse about the limit of this kind of situation,because somebody said to me I give him the wrong idea(opportunity or hope).
          What's the things I can do? What's I can't do?
          And now,I swing back and forward on my decision.
          Sometimes I ignore him,sometimes I take initiative action to talk to him ; I feel I can't treat people like that but every time I done the some things to the guy who seems to like me.
          It's so annoying.
          I wish I can be good at dealing with relation kind of things.

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          • green_boogers
            8 years ago

            Well OK, if he is a nice man, take him to a bedroom and fuck him. It will be fun.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    Dont understand what the fuck you are saying woman.

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    • januarycurse
      8 years ago

      be nice, English is probably not her first language

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Could you just make a fucking choice and stick to it? Did you ever take HIS feelings into account? Apparently not! You are just awful.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    I'm not sure what you mean so I didn't vote: are you concerned he may be sexually attracted to you or are you withdrawing from him solely because of the vague comments of this important person?

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