Take awhile to orgasim and last time it hurt...

So I've always had a hard time having an orgasiming. Sometimes it can take me an hour or 2 to feel the pleasure of an orgasim. Now it's starting to hurt when I have sex. Sometimes to the point I have to stop. It ended a relationship I was in and I haven't had sex in at least 6 months. I'm in a relationship again and I'm scared to have sex because I'm afraid it will hurt or he won't give me an orgasim. Is it normal to hurt or not achieve an orgasim within an hour or 2??

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Based on 6 votes (1 yes)
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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    sometimes "trying too hard" is the key factor.

    when you say "hurts" is it because your skin is rubbing raw, or some other kind of pain.

    You might want to talk to a doctor as well to see if everything's ok

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  • ygrowup

    When you think you are ready, try again with lube and if uncomfortable still, seek a doctor

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