Tainted love

my girlfriend of 5 years discovered i cheated on her, as a result she cheated on me with 2 black guys (at the same time) we are both white by the way, anyway after a few months of not speaking we met up, sorted out our differences and got back together, i do still love her very much but my friends keep on giving her a hard time, saying real nasty things because the guys were black and ive actually lost friends over it, i dont know if we could ever have the same love again i just keep thinking about what those boys did to her (i made her tell everyhing) im not a raciest really i just dont think races should mix like that and she knows that and thats why she done it. so i know its ultimately my fault, but can you really love someone that hurts you like this? i feel like she has been spoiled now because i was her only lover until she did that and we wanted to be together forever but now she just feel like damaged goods, is it normal?

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  • kittylitter101

    Adding the fact that they were black IS racist, jackass.

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  • moomus

    So u got the Arse with her cuz she cheat on u? What about u cheating on her? Double standards! And tit for tat!!'

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  • You wrote:
    "im not a raciest really i just dont think races should mix like that..."

    That IS racist, you ARE racist, and the fact that you are having a difficult time getting past it proves this.

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  • Boronx

    You are racist if you think they should not mix. In this day and age, not normal.

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  • orchid1227

    if you wanted to be with her, you shouldn't have cheated on her to begin with. and you know, blacks and whites are the same species- we're all human, so stop saying it like we're not. it's not like a goat having sex with a cow. you ARE racist, I wouldn't be surprised if you added "btw I have a ton of black friends" at the end of your story. YOU damaged her. get over it, go find a girl who wont get upset if you cheat on her.

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  • dragonfly810

    do you think about those big-black uncut cocks standing full and erect tapping you on your little pink man-mouth as you're positioned on you knees?

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  • imadragon

    Let her go. And btw, yes that is racist of you.

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  • OsamaBinMarijuladen

    Damn bro, she got fucked her by those guys 1+ for my race mofo

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  • shakalaka

    What goes around comes around and all the way back around.

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  • Sexonfire

    Well to be honest you shit all over the relationship when you cheated so there it is hhahahahahahahadfghnjmkl;

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  • kat2422

    Eeeewww, did I miss something? Was the question "am I rascist"? Ok u both were not loyal. What u did was wrong. Did u do it to get bk at her? Do u regret it? Did u show her u were sorry? She has no self esteem or she is a slut w two many friends. Two wrongs don't make a right. It not ur fault that she cheated. It's ur fault u did and if u let her continue or let
    Her believe it's ok cuz it's ur fault then expect to b cheated on more
    Than blame urself. Break up w her. And if u like a girl don't cheat. Especially out of spite. Eeewww. My bf did that cuz I was at walmart to long. I'm not blaming myself. I was getting him a bday card! People are discusting. Not the cheating always, but going out of ur way to intentionally hurt someone u say u love?!?!

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  • Myway75

    If both of u really,really love each other u can get through this! The relationship isn't pure anymore it's damaged but it doesn't sound like it's broken so if both of u work together it can be fixed. Good Luck!!

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  • macaroni

    You deserve what you got. Stop dwelling on it and move on !!

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  • imjustme

    It was hugely wrong for you to cheat on her, and im sorry she cheated on you back. She probably feels very bad right now and i can tell you do to. I havent been in a lot of relationships, and it doesnt seem like i should be giving advice, but someone once told me that if you let someone go and they truly love you they will come back. I do believe in that. I wish i could help more, but like i said no one has really ever liked me.

    what im trying to say is that if you truly love her do everything you can to have her because you never know what you got till its gone.

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  • ComboBreaker

    You're a bit racist. But then again everyone's a little bit racist... sometimes. You cheated on her and she cheated on you. You might feel its a little differnt because there was two of them or something like that but you both cheated on each other. Think how she feels. She probly dosnt see you the same either. It's normal to not see her the same after she cheated. But you cheated too and to be honest, the fact that you too are together still is amazeing. Your relationship isnt normal. But hey... If you two can make it work then why not. If you cant? Its probly because you cheated.

    Normal. If your partner cheats, It's normal not to see them the same way.

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  • Your not racist

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  • BOYracer88

    how could she allow herself to get used like that? thats filthy,id find those 2 guys and kick their heads in, she completely over reacted, but well done to her she taught you a lesson coz it was you who slipped up in the 1st place. i wudnt be able to have a relationship with her after that,shes completly ruined her reputation

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