Superficial world, dating difficulties. philosophy.

I'm 5'7 myself and definitely its a downside and limits you when it comes to dating, i have never gone on a date.
I'm a decent man, i pay my way i have decent looks, i'm outgoing charming and i try my best always to be happy and have a good time.
But regardless of how I am as a person of my decency my happiness and humility without seeming hateful i have recognized some things of interest.
Regardless of the person you are or how you act, moral, ethic, humility, intellectual or so on. It seems it is a selfish age, a lot of people can not see the difference between wrong and right, it irritates me that the world we live in is so superficial to the extremity that people fuck themselves over in the end because of their own selfishness, they fail to see this.
And in this selfish world we lose self worth it seems, drinking drugs, loss of faith in people and humanity or faith in general. because that what comes with a spiritless, cowardly, selfish that is only concerned with seeing people as objects. But if people want to be treated, as a mere cog in some sort, of mechanized wheel, then so be it.
Its like Little to win, Nothing to lose.

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  • felixy

    Strange to call the world superficial when you introduce yourself height first. You have the perspective of a young man who hasn't had many or any relationships with young women. I'm not talking about the romantic kind.

    You've got the makings of a 'nice guy', which means you're not good guy. Not yet. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and see if you can understand the difference.

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    • lukith

      Height should not be regarded, thats the point i'm trying to make.
      ive had plenty of ass.

      Nice guy is just a ridiculous myth.

      Its called Logic
      Being good of heart is a good thing, it understands, not because
      a mans trying to get laid and so on so forth.

      but your comment really reflects what i'm trying to say.
      No faith in the Good or the understanding heart, it just a faithless world
      full of selfish people who don't know the difference between
      wrong and right, that scorn and mock others that see them as mere objects, i refuse to play that game.

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      • felixy

        Just to clarify, I hope you're not confusing love with attraction. Attraction is entirely superficial, it's primal and instantly there or it isn't, and it's physical effects on the body are on par with heavy drugs.

        But there is a self-sacrificial love that is selfless, and that is the love a man has for his wife and kids. It's the love a mother has for her kids. But if you're a man looking for self-sacrificial love from your girlfriend, then you're destined for a bitter disappointment.

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        • lukith

          I just think its reasonable to be good, to be honest,
          it is wise.
          Seems that society asserts that we be Selfish and be
          concerned about what only we desire sometimes we disregard others.Materialism doesnt help much either,
          But we think about ourselves desires first resorting in
          egocentric ways, that are thoughtless.
          Which leads to a lot of problems even disregard for ourselves
          and others.

          We should be more Selfless, open minded, or unselfish.
          Maybe the world would understand some more perhaps we
          would have a bit more consideration towards others some regard then, and maybe even
          some value for ourselves and others also.

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  • FeralDefiance

    Embrace your cynicism and learn to enjoy the world because it's a faberge egg of crystallized stupidity. Don't fight it.

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  • luna101

    In this world it's more about perspective than anything else, how you see the world and how you decide to react to anything. Sometimes what we see in others or in a situation, is a reflection of ourselves. The way you take things gives them that much importance in your life, I say you do some self-digging and look at it from another perspective.

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  • Switchyboi22

    Maybe you're the one being selfish, superficial, and objectifying? You're upset that you're not receiving love when you're not giving it. You've tried to be the perfect guy, tried to mold yourself into what you've been led to believe is what women desire but while doing so losing your individuality. You mindlessly conformed no differently than the drunken fools you generalized. Only your drug of choice is different than theirs. While they're drunk from alcohol, you're drunk from the fumes that fuel the ego of self-righteousness that you have. Learn to love who you really are, you're genuine uniqueness, quirks, flaws, strengths, passions, all of it. Then spread that love to those around you and I bet you'd see a few things change with your dating trouble

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  • peterrabbyt4

    Do you all like to suck cocks and swallow cum?

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  • Tipitt

    Yes Luke we are living in a blue pilled society,
    it is ignorant and money,looks, power comes first in this world
    regardless of everything else. Try to tell people
    otherwise and they get upset.

    Dont ever try to red pill the general population
    otherwise you will be rekt by everyone

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