Subject=vaginal stimulation by a slim finger but not a small penis.

To female respondents only.I have heard and read many statements that a slim finger can bring a woman to vaginal orgasm when worked properly. However many women who are asked if a small penis can bring them to orgasm say no, even though a small penis is larger than a slim finger. It is illogical to assert that a small penis being wider than a small finger and about 2 to 4 and 1/2 inches long could not bring a woman to orgasm the same as a finger of the same length. Therefore I must beleive that many women are being dishonest when they state that a small penis could not bring them to vaginal orgasm. I must also beleive on the evidence that many women are embarassed to admit to being brought to orgasm by small penises and that this embarassment is due to their being conditioned by the male ego not to admit to it. Therefore please answer my questions concerning this matter. To prove my point I request that you experiment with a flexible 2 to 4 and 1/2 inch dildo and find out for yourself. Then answer my questions. Thank you for your information.

Yes, I am embarassed to admit that a small penis can make me orgasm. 9
The male ego has made me embarassed to admit to liking small penises. 7
A small penis can make me orgasm like a slim finger could. 8
A slim finger works better than a small penis! 26
You have to know how to work a small penis like a slim finger. 32
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Comments ( 33 )
  • TerryVie

    43joel, you need help.

    Seriously.
    No matter if you are "getting off" on this or if you truly have some complex about your size: Get professional help.

    Your seemingly single-minded pursuit of this topic seems seriously unhealthy.

    And now you gone all the way and become all ridiculous by not even giving as option an answer that contradicts you.

    Look at those options:

    Yes, you are right. Embarassed to like small penises.
    Yes, you are right, Embarassed because of male ego.
    Yes, you are right, it works like you say.
    You are partially right(and I'm not even mentioning the dexterity part about the finger as others already did)
    Yes, you are right, it depends on know-how.

    Seriously?
    You are aware that many woman have a hard time having a vaginal climax at ALL? And for those it doesn't matter if thats a finger or a horseman stirring inside.

    I can vaginally climax, but, sad as i am to tell you, neither a slim finger nor a small dick will do it for me.
    I need to feel filled out. Call it a psychological reasoning if you must find excuses, but don't forget that sex happens as much in the brain as in the genitals.
    And my mind simply tells you this: The only way a finger will bring me to orgasm is by at LEAST including some clitoral stimulation.

    I never much minded small penises. My mental statistics and memory show that i have less or no orgasms from intercourse with small peni. That does not automatically translate to fewer orgasms during the WHOLE sex act. But merely looking at penetrative intercourse, i am less likely to climax, sometimes i cannot at all.
    I still enjoy having sex. Heck, i can even enjoy having sex if i don't climax at all. Sometimes i'm just not in the mood to fuck but still enjoy it on a interpersonal level.
    But i have to say, your posts kind of make me change my mind. It's like, i'm projecting your "focus" on all small dicks. Like, i'm afraid all those guys will have issues with their size in such a way, and feel repulsed by the idea.(Current state, as said above i didn't ever really mind).

    I know i wrote a whole long story here, but please, get this issue sorted out somehow. If you are looking for someone to just confirm what you are saying, despite that meaning people have to lie, you are in the wrong place here.

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    • iEatZombies_

      This.

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    • bigtoy

      He doesn't get it does he? It's just the same shit all the time.

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  • Darkoil

    You can hook a finger towards the front wall where the g-spot usually is making it really easy to make a girl cum with your finger with the right technique, do you not know anything about sex? This is like basic 101 of foreplay.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    little penis feels like your being poked aggressively by a tube of lipstick .

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    It depends on technique.

    How does a small finger make a woman orgasm? Simple. You're not poking her vagina with it... you're pressing DOWN inside her. That will increase the sense of pressure and make her feel more "full"

    A small penis... depends on whether or not the man attached to it is just poking or pushing down while he thrusts.

    Plus, there are other techniques a woman can use to compensate for male size.
    - too small: pull your knees back to your chest. It helps contract your vagina
    - too big: arch more, a pillow under the hips helps too
    - too much girth: lube, relax, go slowly
    - too thin: Kegel exercises, learn to contract your vaginal muscles around him so you can get that tight feeling

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  • Justsomejerk

    For fucks sake give it up!

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  • dappled

    It's funny how IIN goes through seasons. It's like someone gets a taste for a certain theme and then you see a question about it every single day. A year ago, it was a cousin incest thing. There was something exploring every possible angle of racism. And there were themes of punching people or various nationalities (tongue in cheek, and kind of funny) and also a theme of taking various entities to the movies (I genuinely liked those).

    Then there are the rarer things like the teacher who hates their students ("SHUT UP!") and the guy who dresses in bin liners. Joe and I used to like that one (Joe, if you ever read this, you should come back. Same goes for devilla. We all started at the same time).

    But this week, I guess the theme is small penises. All I can say to you is that if me and Cap'n Keggy succeed in inventing the elongation condom, we may come to you as a guinea pig. If, however, you are approached by a Mr. Shackleford and an inflatable doughnut, you are in a world of trouble.

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    • ComTlancy

      Seriously, some people are getting paranoid. I'm a little on the small side but I don't see how it's going to be a problem.

      Put it this way, if you gave a guy the biggest sword, it does not automatically make him the best swordsman.

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      • dappled

        Yeah, it's not the be all and end all. You know what people are like, though. They look for really simple indicators to measure themselves, like what car they drive. Most of it doesn't mean that much.

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    • charli.m

      I fucking loved the "SHUT UP" guy.

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      • dappled

        Ahh, me too. It was like some kind of keyboard Tourette's Syndrome. SHUT UP!

        I was reading some of the site guidelines last night and they say that more stories are true than we think. What if was some really disgruntled teacher going slowly insane? Eek! :/

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        • Captain_Kegstand

          If more of them than we think are true, then I am a little worried what this world is coming to! lolz

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          • dappled

            I thought exactly the same thing. I'm never entrusting any future dog of mine to a female dogsitter. :O

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            • Captain_Kegstand

              Ha! I don't know, if I was the dog, "dating" not just a girl from a higher class, but an hire species completely might be awesome! Maybe the dogs go brag to their buddies afterwards, who knows?

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      I have been slacking off on my elongation condom bit recently! Thank you for motivating me to get back to work!!!

      I think IIN goes through seasons because when all these stories are posted people start wondering about themselves, and related problems. These posts bring all the similar issues out of the woodwork! Just a guess!

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      • dappled

        Yeah, I'd agree with that. I think one person gets another one going and so on, then there are three of them all singing the same song. Give a hand, folks, to "The Penis Size Trio" with the "Bonzo Doo Dah Dog Sex Band" as backing! :D

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    • DannyKanes

      Don't forget the string of posts that were Bruno Mars lyrics lol

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      • dappled

        Oh God, I forgot those. The funniest was where someone gave a straight answer to one of them, lol.

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      • nightmare28

        And the chain of posts about men vs women.

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        • shade_ilmaendu

          CAN BOYS AND GERLS REALLY BE FRIENDS, GUISE???!!!1

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        • DannyKanes

          Oh yes, I forgot those :)

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        • Captain_Kegstand

          Dog sex posts

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          • DannyKanes

            Ugh, those "getting raped" by a dog posts shit me

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            • iEatZombies_

              OMGee, where the hell was I for that??
              (Note: I am formerly known as "CoverYourEars")

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            • Captain_Kegstand

              Lolz how does a dog rape someone, hold you at gun point? Just admit that you wanted it people!

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  • mae94

    BTW the vote choices are kinda unfair .. no mater what one you pick it means you like small penis, and the truth is most all girls would prefer big over small, unless its extreme.

    also i cant imagine any girl being ashamed to admit she has orgasm from a small penis .. why would she feel shame about that ??

    also , a woman can not orgasm from a slim finger lol , so I think you must have read some false info about that topic.

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  • mae94

    I think the truth is penis size depends on the girls size.

    am not making fun of anyone, but Asian man will have smaller penis for example to suite Asian girls, who are very tiny proportions compared to African or American etc

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  • Boo!

    Fingers can make women orgasm, really!? Well, not me. Maybe I'm not using the right technique or something but its no good without the real stuff. And lets not forget the moves.

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  • cookiesaregreat

    Oh, isitnormal.com. you make me laugh so hard at times.
    Just seeing everyones comment here.
    I don't know why I'm even commenting on this story,
    But i just wanted to say I love y'all.

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  • GuessWho

    Dude. Get over your dick and stop shitposting. It should be easy for you given it's size.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I think the finger is much more dexterous than a penis, and also allows for more clitoris stimulation along with.

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