Strange growth spurt, iin?

I've been working out most of my life, I do have a few health problems because I used to smoke. All in all I'm very strong naturally. I'm 22 and throughout my teenage years I used to starve myself a lot and smoke to maintain a frame. Eventually at about 20 I quit and got into workout supplements and actually eating and lifting. I've noticed my shoulders have grown dramatically, even my skeletal structure feels wide.

My stupid uncle is convinced there's no such thing as big boned, I disagree. I only weight about 162 pounds, but I'm wide as hell. It actually annoys me, so called "muscle shirts" don't even fit me, not because I'm too big, but because I'm wide. Last time I posted someone said I just needed to work out -_- which I found stupid because every time I lift my body just gets bigger, even if I don't eat much. I have the full on diamond shape, but I don't want it. All the shirts I see are built for super skinny people my height.

Is it normal I'm going through this right now? I'm also growing facial hair on my cheeks a bit instead if just my chin and lip and I've grown a fourth of an inch.