Strange attraction

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Things got pretty f**ked up for me when I was younger, and I self mutilated, most apparently cuts out of my left arm. They healed pretty well, but are noticable on the underside. I forget about the scars on my arm most of the time. Its not that I am ashamed... well, yeah I am ashamed but not to the point where I hide it.
Then yesterday a man hits on me at a lunch table, and the conversation takes a weird turn when he starts asking about my scars. He seems really really interested, and I sensed he was turned on by it when he started to touch them a little. This freaked me out, and I said I was late for class...

So, its this normal? at all? I am pretty otherwise, and its not like a burn victim, they just look like what they are. Is this too creepy or is this somewhat normal?

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Based on 83 votes (40 yes)
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  • eatableyou
    11 years ago

    I think scars are like battle wounds, beautiful in a way that show what you've been through and how strong you are for coming out of it . That's what Demi Levato said about scars, and I agree with him

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    hahah, oh my gosh! Don't worry. If I were you I'd be so into him! He took an intrest to something really personal. Unless he's old and creepy,I'd go for it!

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal
    14 years ago

    stay away from that guy. he wants to perpetuate your previous problems (too many P's i know) and most certainly doesn't have your best interests in mind.
    Not normal (for him)

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  • TheSociopath102
    15 years ago

    now the thing that bothers me is that this conversation went from scars to amputy porn!
    what the fuck guys ?! lol

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  • MapleSyrup
    15 years ago

    Well everyone has a fetish... perhaps scars are his.

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    Now how did we evolve from scars, self harm, dirty old men to amputee porn?

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  • maxwelhouser
    16 years ago

    its normal im a burn victim myself got burns on my arms and face its not what the pepole see ont the outside its whats in ur heart that counts

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    Maybe you should have grabbed him while you had the chance a lot of people will see those scars and think your some sort of psycho head case and avoid you

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    • Potato
      16 years ago

      I don't have problems finding guys or finding friends... If they don't understand they probably are too sheltered for me anyways :) That wasn't the question.

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  • khkk
    13 years ago

    whats creepy is that you cut yourself in the first place dumb ass

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  • slackjawedyokel
    16 years ago

    yeah all sorts of freaks out there.....there are websites with women who have had amputations for guys who get turned on by stuff like that.Stay inside with the door locked and dont answer the phone.

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    • Potato
      16 years ago

      I actually saw some amputee porno the other day... fucking weird.

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  • flowers-madness
    13 years ago

    I have many scars on my right arm from when I was a cutter. I got a big ol tattoo of an ankh to cover them, have you considered that? Btw, I loved my scars but I really like my tat. Its probably a visual thing.

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  • LetsLeadNotFollow
    13 years ago

    Bahaha at potato!! Omg I can't stop laughing!! And George Bush lmao!

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  • LoveYouBabe
    13 years ago

    That man is disturbed.

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  • BUGABOO-666-
    13 years ago

    There are many fetishes out there.

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  • TheSociopath102
    15 years ago

    personaly , if you had any problems and cut yourself its no reason for you to be less atractive . your just someone whos ben thrue shit , and the guy may just be atracted to people who have ben thrue alot

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  • generalknowledge
    15 years ago

    could be that he's a sadist. i'm somewhat attracted to scars, but i'm not a sadist in that way. yes, i get happy and excited when i put people in pain, but that's only if they deserve it in my books. you have every right to be wierded out by it, but if you don't like the whole s&m business, keep your distance from him.

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  • CaseyRocks06
    15 years ago

    That's a little creepy....

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  • XxXGummiXxXBearXxX
    15 years ago

    That must have been awkward.

    I actually read about a mental thing where you are sexually attracted to amputees more than you are to anyone else. It isn't for any specific reason either.

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  • iknowyoursecret98
    15 years ago

    I cut myself too and guys are turned on by the scars. idk maybe guys are just f*cked up like that.

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  • SlimFast
    15 years ago

    Many people do it.

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  • Potato
    16 years ago

    I always suspected George bush was into amputee porn..

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