Straight men, would you consider a relationship with a pre-op ts woman?
I’m a trans woman and I’m not opting for SRS ( sex reassignment surgery ) at this point due to financial constraints. I live as a woman and consider myself a mainstream, normal person. I can engage in normal, stable relationships while being monogamous. It will take some years before I can have the operation down there because at this moment I can’t financially afford to have the surgery. I don’t know if I should postpone my search for love until I’m post-op or if I should also allow myself finding love while still being pre-op. I don’t use my penis for sexual activity and I wouldn’t want my partner to be interested in it either. I am generally attracted to heterosexual cisgender males. I am not exceptionally attractive physically. I’m just an average person. I do have an interesting character though and I am an optimistic and humoristic person who strives to achieve her goals in life and whose motto is “ live and let live “.
I am a university student. I’m thinking that this is not enough to offer to a man. I mean, if I was exceptionally attractive he probably would make some wiggle room, but since I just look average, I know my chances to find love pre-op are quite small. I’m speaking about a hormonally reassigned trans woman ( myself ) in this case. I have been on hormones for close to 3 years now and I am 22 years old. I have been offered one-night stands but have never taken someone up on their offer because I’m a person who needs to have an emotional connection with someone before I would consider having sex with them. That’s where the problem is : most men just want to “ play “ with women like me but never more than that.