Straight men, would you consider a relationship with a pre-op ts woman?

I’m a trans woman and I’m not opting for SRS ( sex reassignment surgery ) at this point due to financial constraints. I live as a woman and consider myself a mainstream, normal person. I can engage in normal, stable relationships while being monogamous. It will take some years before I can have the operation down there because at this moment I can’t financially afford to have the surgery. I don’t know if I should postpone my search for love until I’m post-op or if I should also allow myself finding love while still being pre-op. I don’t use my penis for sexual activity and I wouldn’t want my partner to be interested in it either. I am generally attracted to heterosexual cisgender males. I am not exceptionally attractive physically. I’m just an average person. I do have an interesting character though and I am an optimistic and humoristic person who strives to achieve her goals in life and whose motto is “ live and let live “.
I am a university student. I’m thinking that this is not enough to offer to a man. I mean, if I was exceptionally attractive he probably would make some wiggle room, but since I just look average, I know my chances to find love pre-op are quite small. I’m speaking about a hormonally reassigned trans woman ( myself ) in this case. I have been on hormones for close to 3 years now and I am 22 years old. I have been offered one-night stands but have never taken someone up on their offer because I’m a person who needs to have an emotional connection with someone before I would consider having sex with them. That’s where the problem is : most men just want to “ play “ with women like me but never more than that.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • leggs91200

    The biggest problem with men who want to date TG women is they want someone who looks like a woman but still has male parts. And they want to suck on it. In private, so no one finds out about their alternative desires, especially their wives. I am not kidding, the men who date TG are looking to suck someone off.

    Probably a TG's best bet for love is finding someone who is bisexual at least. Since they are open to dating men and women, we can offer the best of both.

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  • megadriver

    I'm a straight man and I'll go with no. I like women, who were women, are women and will be women. Doesn't matter how hot a mtf is, I want a real woman in my life that wants a real man in hers. Simple as that.

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  • Nickleangel

    I'm not straight, I'm bi, but I do prefer being with women. Still I would be in a relation with a TS if we clicked and if she wasn't too masculine looking. Hope it helps to know.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Why are you talking to yourself?

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  • jtkirkfan2002

    Sorry, pre-op or post-op the answer is no. There are still some of us out there who this whole transgender thing stretches our tolerance too far.

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  • If he is a fag, sure yeah.

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    • charli.m

      You're aware that clicking "post anonymously" outs you as the OP?

      Dumb fuck troll.

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      • leggs91200

        The original post was asking something serious. She would not have written something intelligible and serious like that only to troll her own thread.
        Why someone else would hide behind "post anonymously" who knows but it wasn't likely the OP.

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        • charli.m

          Only the OP can do it, you fucking muppet.

          It fucking says "Anonymous Post Author". You're as stupid as the OP.

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          • leggs91200

            Oh yeah? Well your mom is a fag who liked Justin Beiber!

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            • charli.m

              Oh ouch. That hurt.

              Embarrassed, huh? Why don't you just post your comment anonymously, since you think just anyone can do it, other than the OP.

              Can't handle being so obviously and stupidly wrong, eh?

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    • Cliche1234

      You're a special kind of retard. Why the hell you're super dumb enough to comment as anonymous post author while giving answer to the original post? Thanks for the laugh.

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    • ElissaMtF

      Thanks. That’s really polite and considerate of you. Want brownie points?

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