Still single, iin?

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I'm an 18 year old girl, and I've been single all my life. All my friends are guys. All my friends are in relationships.

I've come close to having relationships with guys, but I've been involved with the wrong guys. Guys who have feelings for someone else. I've been the rebound a few times, and I've been hurt a lot. The way it usually is, guys are with me for a short while, and lead me on, and in the end, I end up making them realise how much they love someone else, mainly their ex.

When I'm out and about, guys look at me. Honestly, I'm quite an attractive girl, and I've been told so on many occasions. I'm a lovely nice, kind hearted girl, who wouldn't dream of hurting anyone or anything. I have a lot in common with all the guys I know, like music, TV and games.

Is this normal that I'm still single and always have been?

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    You sound like a very sweet girl. Be abit more tough, and show them that you don't want to be hurt. Sounds like most of them just take advantage of you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It just seems like you've had bad luck with guys. Honestly you sound like a great girl and someday the right guy will come along. Have you thought about dating one of your friends that you wouldn't normally go for just cause he's a tad socially awkward? Try looking for love in the places that you wouldn't expect it to be, like a library or a coffee shop, definitely not a bar.

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    You are a bulldyke. Guys think of you more as a friend than as a possible long lasting relationship. Someone to think about and go to whenever they need to get laid and could not find someone who would not play videogames and probably stay in the kitchen instead.
    What makes guys want to stay with you a long time is knowing you are gonna be a woman. By which I mean doing women things. And they probably do not see all that in you. Of course they act like assholes.. Most males act like assholes with eachother and think it is funny. Yeah it is kind of normal. You would have found your long lasting love if you weren't such a masculine and boy like behaving bitch! I am just using your word.

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    • frankiestrange
      12 years ago

      "whenever they need to get laid"

      I'm not a whore. >_> And in all honesty, I've never had sex, because I'm waiting for the right guy. Just so you know. D:

      Also, I'm not that masculine. Just because I like games, does not make me masculine. I love oil painting and poetry, I always wear dresses because they really suit me, and my hair is always nice, and I wear a bit of make up.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If its true that you havent been rejecting guys that you deemed "unworthy" then I am sure the right guy will come along at some point. Dont stress out over it, you are only 18 yrs old after all.

    If you are quite attractive and have been told so then you wont have to wait very long, especially since you are a woman, and good looking woman will always get approached, no matter what. Perhaps you intimidate some guys, into thinking not worth the effort of making fool out of myself as she is way outta my league OR its assumed you already have a significant other.

    Just remember guys that are assholes are not confident, dont make the mistake of associating it together.

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    • Shackleford96
      12 years ago

      Is it weird that I thought your username said "djpanties"

      Good advice by the way, I agree.

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  • SamsaVitch
    12 years ago

    Ok i don't see anything wrong with being single im single and im not looking for anyone i feel lonely when i see other couples but then i realise that i have not met the girl whom i love yet so i just shrug it of and i just wait for the one i love. And who knows maybe the who you love is someone who was there already.

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  • QuestionMark?
    12 years ago

    You sound like a perfect girl!, & yes it is normal for you to be single, you just have to wait for that special someone (;
    p.s i wish i had a girlfriend like you . .
    p.s.s that special someone will be lucky too have you <3

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  • blueyes-texas
    12 years ago

    For every douche that you dated and dumped you, I bet you rejected 3 other guys (who you probably thought were not up to your standards.)
    You are 18, i'm sure you have other priorities, or you could lower your standards a little bit if you really want a boyfriend so bad.

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    • frankiestrange
      12 years ago

      I don't have high standards, and I've only rejected one person, who was a complete asshole. :'(

      The reason I don't have high standards is because I have extremely low self worth, and I feel like everyone or most people at least, are way better than I am.

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