Still not over an ex

I dated this girl for 5 years. She broke up with me and had a new bf a couple weeks later. It tore my heart up. She wanted to be friends but I couldnt at the time. we talk here and there now, but we're not best friends. And she wants to be cool with me. She'll invite me to stuff, but I never go. Its been 3 years since the break up and I still think about her and feel like Im in love with her still and I dont know why. Ive moved on and dated other people, but I just feel like she's that one for me. Is this normal to feel like this

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Based on 46 votes (37 yes)
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  • Corleone

    I know it's a hard thing to do, but get a grip on yourself. It's been three years, so.. maybe consider going to a psychologist (I'm not saying you're crazy, those people spend most of there day helping normal people to cope with everyday problems.)
    If you think that's too big a step, then maybe you could watch this video? It's not much, but it's some helpful information in 2:12 minutes.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N05Fc8ZDmKU&feature=channel_video_title

    Btw, I'm not trolling you by sending you a video of two girls one cup or something. Just go to youtube, and search: DeanLeysen how to deal with a Breakup

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  • 8Serene8

    Obviously you havent moved on then.

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  • BoredGuy

    forget about her, block her completely out of you life. been there man, it never has a happy ending, block her out.

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  • drows

    Normal. Take your time, but get finally over it.

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