Still love ex equal to my present girlfriend? is it normal?

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I don't feel stronger about this one than my ex and in fact when I ran into my ex a few weeks ago, I realized I love her to pieces and it felt amazing. Only broke up with her because I wasn't ready for commitment I was young and honestly just wanted to be single and have fun. Is that bad?????

Now with the girl I'm with now she's lovely too but I feel the same?? I feel like I love her but I love my ex and have though about her.

How do you makeup your mind??? How can I love them equally what do I do? Is it normal?

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Maybe you should take a break from dating altogether, and try to get your head straight?

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  • Notderanged
    5 years ago

    You weigh out the cons and pros of each now. Who has better sexual prowess? Who can cook? Who looks better and who do you think will look better in the long run?

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  • paramore93
    5 years ago

    There must be a reason she's your ex and you guys broke up, rose tinted glasses can be dangerous. I think weighing the pros and cons was a good idea.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      no we were fine. She was just wanting to settle down and I wasn't ready

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  • barstool
    5 years ago

    Just stay with the one you're with for now. It's normal to still have feelings for an ex, but don't read too much into it. And don't try and get back with her because you'll only be messing with her feelings when you're not sure what you want.

    What you're feeling is totally normal. There are tons of girls out there you could potentially feel that exact same way about, you just happen to feel it for two at the one time. It's fine, but there's no need to worry or do anything about it. Don't tell your girlfriend.

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