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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months and we have great sex and it's quite kinky. But for some reason, even though I want to, I'm still nervous/embarrassed to give or receive oral sex. I've never done it with anyone before. Has anyone been in this position or has any advice?
if you care for him and decide you love him
you will do it
When I was with my x boyfriend
I fell in love with him
I gave bj to a prior xx but never finished him off because i was afraid and didn't love him or have true love feelings for him. my xx was more of practice for me to learn how to give a good bj. He would tell me what to do how to do for fun and practice(for me)
When i fell for my x boyfriend, I gave him full bj all the time
as in daily at least 2x a day once in the morning before he got ready for work, and once in the evening when we went to bed.
He use to ask me for it all the time, but then he stopped asking because I just did on my own.
I use to never enjoy doing it but with him , he is the only man I ever went all the way with.
Now i feel like I can't do it again to anyone else.
I m so hung up on him still even though he broke my heart and left me 4 months ago
:(
It is normal to not want to do that to your boyfriend. You obviously don't love him enough to do it
When your in love you find that you can be comfortable and do nearly anything with your boyfriend
Everyone is different. Personally, I enjoy both giving oral sex to my partner and receiving oral sex from my partner; however, you have individuals out there who enjoy giving oral sex but not receiving it and you have individuals out there who DO NOT enjoy giving OR receiving oral sex. If you don't feel comfortable giving oral sex to your partner than don't, but if you want to try it out then I suggest that you do this for awhile so you don't end up chocking on his cock (trust me I had to do this before I learned how to deep-throat w/o chocking): 1. Hold the shaft of his penis with your hand but make sure you are not doing it too tight (you might make him howl and NOT in pleasure) 2. Put your mouth around the head of his penis, but keep your jaw parted so you don't end up biting and/or scraping your teeth against his head (men are just as sensitive down there are we, women, are) 3. Gently work your hand up and down his shaft while you are sucking/licking his head, and also GENTLY squeeze the shaft as you are working your hand up and down (remember, the goal is pretty much to imitate the motions/function of the vagina, but using your hand and mouth instead). Then, MAYBE after awhile of doing oral sex this way to your partner (if you decide that you actually LIKE giving head) you can try to deep-throat him. This is achieved by expanding you throat, keeping your jaw parted (for the same reason that I mentioned above), NOT using your hand to keep the shaft from going too deep, and you pretty much put your mouth all the way down his penis until your mouth stops at his balls and then you use your lips,tongue, and the up and down motions of your head, to mimic the actions that a vagina would (example: squeezing during orgasm). But, this is up to you and what you really feel comfortable with. Anyways, I hope that my tips help you out when/if you decide to preform oral sex with your boyfriend. Just note if you DO NOT want him to ejaculate into your mouth tell him before you begin giving head so he can warn you when he his about to cum so you can remove your mouth and just jerk his cock until he blows.
Just accept you're going to have no clue what you're doing the first time and go for it. Don't let your insecurities cheat you out of a great time with your bf.
It is the best way to show how much you care for your s/o. Once you start, you will both love it and will never stop. Enjoy it!
I think the best part of sex is oral. Once you get him in your mouth you will wonder why you waited, YOU WILL LOVE IT!