Still dependent on my parents, iin?

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I'm 20 years old and my mom and dad still do my laundry, dishes, etc. and pay for literally everything for me, though I don't ask for much. I still trust my mom and dad more than anyone else I know and without question, mostly. I've been giving my mom a hug goodnight every night since I was a little kid. I still lay down and put my head on her lap sometimes and it's just kind of comforting for both of us. Asperger's/ADHD, diagnosed, no job and very little friends or contacts other than parents, introverted. IIN?

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  • eyes_wide_open
    8 years ago

    This is actually really really common for people with Aspergers or ADHD. I have ADD and Anxiety myself, so I actually find that being around my parents is really comforting, and I still do all the same things and I'm almost eighteen. However, I would suggest at least making the effort to help out some, even if it's small things like doing dishes, or asking your parents to teach you how to laundry, they'll notice it and appreciate it, and it will even give you a little sense of independence. I would say however, move at your own pace, Do what's best for you, and in time, everything will be okay.

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    • Zangoose
      8 years ago

      While I forget a lot, I do do my best to empty/clean the dishwasher if and when I see it, take out the garbage/recycling, etc.

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      • Faggot_Asses
        8 years ago

        Have you considered trying to be more independent? You do realize your parents won't be there forever?

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        • Zangoose
          8 years ago

          Yeah - I'm going to be trying to do so - maybe I could get some part time job over my next semester of college, but I doubt i'd be able to balance it and my classes. I know for sure I'm going to be trying for an internship over the summer though.

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      • eyes_wide_open
        8 years ago

        That's all that matters then, as long as you're doing what makes you comfortable, and you're working at a pace that works for both you and your parents, everything's fine, this is completely normal, I promise.

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  • CarterContagious
    8 years ago

    I'm 19 (20 In Less Than A Month ) And I Still Live At Home I Do Dishes On My Assigned Day, Help Here And There But No Job, I'll Start College Soon But Not Very Motivated, I Have ADD ADHD Bipoler Disorder, PTSD , Depression, As Well As Oppositional Defiancy Disorder. So I Can Easily Relate To This , It Helps To Yry To Get Yourself Motivated It Takes Alot But If You Set Your Mind To It I'm Sure You Can Vet Out Of This Rut!
    But Yes Its Definitely Normal!
    Good luck Hun

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  • klebo
    8 years ago

    You can cum rest your head on my lap ;)

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