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Ok i posted a similair story before on the same subject, but i wanna make it shorter and to the point.
I'm 31 female and never had sex before due to never being in a relationship, and i'm not interested in casual sex.
I find it difficult to meet men due to many insecurities i have about myself.
what should i do?
I don't think it's weird. I'm 21 and I'm a virgin by choice. I prefer to wait until marriage. It sounds old fashioned but I know it's right for me. If my friends find that weird then they aren't truly my friends because they would respect my wishes.
I respect girls who arn't loose. Because its so easy for girls to just let someone do them. It takes a strong spirit to keep walking in a straight path.
Being a virgin at 31 is probably very uncommon, but I wouldn't say its weird or anything. If you want to meet someone that you can have a meaningful relationship with, my advice is don't look in bars or clubs. I think a dating site would be a good idea. I use them, simply because it's an easy way to meet new people. I wouldn't tell them you are a virgin though until the relationship got a bit more serious. Then confide in him and tell him. If he's a good guy, he'l love you even more for it.
it's perfectly safe to be a virgin. Imagine the fun u will have the first time u do it with the special someone.
It's ok to be a virgin. I was one until 42. Sex is for those "in love." When you meet the right person at the right time then you can let go of your virginity. I made a mistake losing my virginity.
Go out with some friends, Have some fun! You will soon get to know some guys and fine the one right for you :)
Wow unless you look like Susan Boyle
Your waiting WAY too long
By the time your 40 your hormones are probably packing up for superannuation
practice by putting a watermellon in the oven for a while, get it warm an..... wait. shit your a girl... forgottt...:/
I wish that when I met my now husband that I would have still been a virgin it makes it more special I think anyways..About how you feel about yourself when you find the right person you will feel less self concious and more comfortable with your body. Youe first time you will still be nervous but thats normal. Good luck and congrats for being able to hold on to it that long..
Socialize more, have more friends, go out alot and just have fun and dont let it bother you.
I have a friend who had her firt time when she was 30 or so. However, I don't think it's normal... today. What should you do? I would say make a move when you like somebody. Got nothing to loose :)
Of course there is, but i don't want to just have casual sex. That's not in my nature.
i think ist not normal.why you waited so long.isnt there anyone you could have sex with?
im not trying to be mean or anything but i lost min at the age of 12 im not saying thats good or anything all u have to do is socialize more and really get to know people and what they like to do
You could try internet dating if you aren't into the pub scene or...whatever. It does work and you can ease yourself into a relationship.
be yourself if they dont like who you are they can screw off. and be more socail but dont look like a slut, pardon my french