Still a virgin

I'm a 17 year old female virgin and nobody believes I am one. They would always say I look like a porn star or stripper. The thing is I don't dress slutty, and what people say is that it the way my face look and my body shape. I only had two boyfriends my whole life and every time I get to know a guy all they want is sex and not want to get to know me. what I really want to do is just wait for that special person I love, but others think its cute and/or stupid and just think I should loses it already and they would also say love is not real. If nobody believes in love anymore idk what ill do so i was just wondering IIN

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  • ManicMan

    I wish more girls were like you. It shows good judgement/morals when you wait for the one special person you want to do it with.

    P.S: If it means anything, I'm still a virgin at 20 years old, and I'm a guy.

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  • TheGraySheep

    i'm 19 and still a virgin...be proud girl!

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  • Girl you are a rare diamond in today's world of sluts who will tell you otherwise. Because they say you look like a stripper or pornstar, I assume you are attractive and beautiful. Many people think that beauty means you hand yourself out just like that; but it's quite the opposite. It's the not-confident ones that think they need to have sex to prove something. Not the way to go. Stay the way you are, because one day, people will appreciate you. You have values and morals. A good man will appreciate that.

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  • supaflyafro

    u got haters and want you to be just like them. fuck what they say and do what you want regardless WHO say so. you give in to what they want and what you dont want then thats something ur gonna have to deal with then

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  • I_steal_free_bread

    Guys can be shallow sex hungry jerks nowadays.

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    • Tehboss

      man allways were sex hungry jerks that's what makes us.

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  • JuliusE

    Wait for the right man. I have been with plenty of women but I REALLY respected and was/am attracted to my wife who was a virgin before me.

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  • Tisgranum

    I'm a 32 years old male virgin and I have been down the waiting for love path. It's not that love doesn't exist, but sometimes sex comes before love. Even most often than not, I think. Love can take years to flourish.

    I suggest that you wait to feel comfortable with someone. For a moment where YOU want to do it and with somebody you feel comfortable to do so. He/she doesn't need to be your life partner, just somebody who is worth the push.

    I still want to find love but I also believe that it is kind of naive to believe in finding my soul mate on the first try.

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  • cookiesaregreat

    i think its normal you're still a virgin.

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  • HecateAlVanne

    I'm the same, except I haven't had a boyfriend. It's perfectly fine.

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  • GhostQueen

    You're 17. You're far from being the only virgin your age. If you have sex, have it under the circumstances you want to have it under. And if you're not ready yet, that's ok! If anything, it just means you know yourself well enough to have avoided having sex in a situation you don't want.

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  • Still virgin. )
    Honey, you still 17 years old.
    You're not working yet, you still studying.
    Do you know that in North Korea man can be virgin both at 17 and 25 years old?
    There's no gays and lesbians, cause Kim Ir Sen doesn't appreciates it.
    They cannot get laid until they got social status.
    It's normal that you at 17 still virgin.

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  • metallover1991

    I'm 20, a dude, and a virgin. Ach..

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  • greyizh

    WOW... nice work there girls...

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  • MrsBailey9

    Listen to WISE. Very wise.

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  • I, being gay, have to believe in love to get by. Please hold out for the right guy. He will be there and the right guy won't force you. I know people will make it seem like everyone is doing it but recent statistics say that more than 50% of high school seniors are still virgins. Hold out. It is worth. And remember, by having your virginity, at any moment you could be just like them, but they could never be like you.

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  • surreal-artist

    I was just like you (as a boy) before the age of 23 when I lost my virginity in a typical "american fashion" that means that I was drunk and so was she. My conciousness sort of revived during sex and I was just disgusted having sex with an unknown woman. Soon after I broke up with this "affair" my world went to shit. It was as if I had to pay a price for that sin. I kinda regret it today because love seems dead to me. I would encourage you to find the right boy, someone you can really trust before intercourse. Those guys are rare but untill you find him enjoy yourself. You are young and there are plenty of things to do at you age.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Hold out for the one you want.

    Not every man is worth losing unicorns for.

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  • jenjen06

    Good for you :)

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  • animaguskid

    I lost my virginity at 19. While I was in high school I had some somewhat distant friends that were pretty sexually active. At the time I felt somewhat pressured to become sexually active in order to relate to them better or something. Obviously I waited until later to lose it and I'm still very happy with that decision. I have a close friend that gave in and slept with a few guys back then because of these people. She regrets those decisions now and I've come to realize that when it comes to dating your instincts are incredibly useful. If something feels off your instincts will let you know that and if you're at all uncomfortable you shouldn't go through with it because you will more than likely come to regret it later.
    So just hold out for mr.right and wait until the time feels "right" before you sleep with him. You don't owe it to anyone to lose your virginity before you're comfortable with the idea. Believe me you will regret it later.

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  • Bellapro

    Good for you girl, don't fall for anybody's tricks. Stay true to yourself, wish I had done the same :)

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  • jaclynsaredelicious

    Girl you wait for that special guy dont let anyone tell you otherwise :)

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  • youngat86

    Seventeen! That's a long time ago and, believe it or not, you still have a lot to learn.

    First, you neeed balance, a rare commodity at any age. Don't rush yourself because you often can't go back. Later, you will learn to take more chances and, hopefully, which ones are worth taking.

    Now is most likely the time for caution, but that does NOT mean entering a nunnery. Hopefully, when the time is right you will know it...or, at least, be so consumed with passion that only one course of action will do.

    Good Luck!

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  • :<TayTay>:

    Do not let those fags get to you. Im 15 and I had the same thing happen to me. What I think girls should do is say no the first couple of times there asked out to see if the guy is willing to stay and keep asking till he gets a yes instead of saying yes and having the guy want sex. It's easy say no and if they stay their worth it. But not all. Some guys get pretty desperate.

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  • lady513

    Same! Cept I'm 18! Don't let the guys get what they want fir something we don't want:)

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  • GuineaPigsRock

    Thats normal!! Your only 17.... not everyone has to have sex immediately. I'm waiting for the right person too. I'm bi and have only had 1 lover. No rush my friend.

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  • cabubblestoo

    I have a friend who lost hers at 19. She had only had two boyfriends and people frequently looked at her chest then her face. It is normal you just haven't found the person you want to share that with.

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  • theinsecurekiwi

    Perfectly normal :) be thankful that you're not only a virgin,but since no one thinks you are you don't have to deal with the stigma.

    Keep doign what you're doing.Don't worry.Everyone is different and there's nothin wrogn with that.

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  • ilovemyjew

    Stay a virgin until u find the right one:)

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  • JadeH

    I have same prob by i'm 23! i have special reasons though. pls read and answer mine!

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  • I have the same problem.

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  • thank you guys I just needed others opinions

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  • Tehboss

    off course there's still love there's just much more sex then love. I think you should do it with someone that you love but that's my OPINION it does not make it wrong or right find your on answer and now don't tell us you have that face body combo if you are not gonna show it...

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