Sticking to a girl
Is it normal that i stick to a girl who keeps denying me sex after two years of our relationship
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Is it normal that i stick to a girl who keeps denying me sex after two years of our relationship
People are saying it's pathetic, but I personally don't find it patehtic at all. Sex is put up on such a high pedistol like you'll die without it. I think it's great that your waiting for her, sex in reality, isn't a necessity like food or drink. I would rather have a person I care about in my life than "sex" both is great, but between the two, love is definately more important
no its not true love you cant love someone fully if sex isnt involved reason why marriages go to the shitter when the sex isnt what it used to be
It all depends on what you love more.... Her or your own pleasure.
No one -woman or man - should HAVE to give out if they don't want to.
As for her "refusing" to give out... did she tell you from the start that she wanted to wait? If she did, then why did you stay if you knew it would be a deal-breaker?
'denying you sex' makes it sound like you're entitled to it, like it's something she owes you. That's a very unattractive way of putting it.
Whether or not it's normal depends on your age. If you're over 18 I would say it's pretty unusual.
Unless she's still a child, has a genital abnormality, or has been abused, two years seems like a ridiculously long amount of time to wait.
I've NEVER met any normal adult women that would postpone sex for that long. That just seems like crazy nonsense.
This website is still 18+, isn't it?
It sounds sort of romantic that you would wait so long. I don't know why she stays with you if she doesn't want to do it. Unless you guys aren't married and she's abstinent. And if you stayed with her so long and love her, you should be willing to commit...Right?
Are you "sticking" to her because she's a cardboard cutout covered in two years worth of your semen?
Two years is pretty long. If you love her, then stay with her, but try to talk to her about it. Don't push he too much, there could be a number of reasons as to why she doesn't want to have sex. But if you've been together for two years, then I would think you two are close enough to have that conversation.
Why's it matter? If it's love, then who gives a damn? Save it till marriage and it will make it that much more special. Just saying.
She's frigid, I'm sorry to say. Maybe a closet lezza. Maybe just asexual. Whichever way you look at it you ain't getting none. Even if you wanted kids, it would be kinda difficult, no?
i guess its normal DEPENDING on the situation. like maybe shes one of those girls who likes to wait before marriage:s and other things. but still its ULTIMATElY your choice.
What is the reason behind her not wanting to have sex with you? When did you become aware of this reason? You obviously think this is no longer normal, because you asked....but at some point you must have thought that either this reason was reasonable and/or that she was worth sticking around this long for....