Stepson is ridiculous

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Okay so I met this woman a few years ago and we really sparked up an interest with one another. I'm fairly younger than her by 7 years and she already has a soon to be 10yr old boy. Now when we first met the boy was okay never bothered me really. However since we have moved in with one another Ive found out a lot of stuff that I would of never dreamed was possible. The boy will not go to the bathroom he literally shits his self and just continues to sit in it and wont tell anyone. Hes not mentally handicapped or anything he just does it ( only when hes with his mother or grandmother or aunt). He walks around cursing at anyone and everyone I have witnessed him telling his family to shut the fuck up go to hell there all bitches fuck all of them and so on and so on. Now I was not raised like that at all. Im from the south so I was brought up yes mam no mam yes sir no sir. Now I dont want him to have to be like that at all I expect everyone to be different from one another. But last night he decided that he was going to try me. Now im the nicest guy to him that I can be but im not dealing with that so I started to jack his little ass up but decided not to I just told him in-front of everyone that if he ever spoke to me like that again I'd slap his teeth down his fucking throat. Now his mother has a big attitude towards me what do I do. I stand firm were I stand no one is going to talk to me like that I'm a grown ass man my own mother doesn't speak to me like that. Not only that but she doesnt understand that shes about to have our daughter and my daughter will not act like that.

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  • Jjinxa
    12 years ago

    You def need to discuss what your expectations of your daughter are going to be. Good luck! sounds like you have some hard work ahead of u.

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    Sorry, 10 year old son. After rereading your post, I also think that the boy may need counseling. If he legitimately has a medical problem causing him to defecate himself, send him to a doctor. Hell, if the Mom doesnt think he has a mental problem, tell her then he needs to go to the doctor for a physical problem. If it appears to be a mental problem then send him to the counselor. I think his whole attitude in general is a precursor to a very troubled teen, and he is only 3 years away. Get him in counseling now-- you all will be grateful for it in just a few years.

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    I think you need to talk with the mom/your mate and set out some ground rules. Since you all are having a kid and you all are living together, you need to come together for some parenting guidelines. If you are going to be expected to take responsibility in the household, you need to know what authority you have so that you can discipline within your boundaries.

    With that 7 year old boy, consistency is going to be key. He needs a consistent boundary and someone who is going to tell him right from wrong. Unfortunately, it doesnt sound like he has been disciplined or if he has, boundaries have not been enforced. When you step in, it will be a big shock for him, so you need to ensure Mom is on board with the plan. Good luck.

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