Stay in my life!

Is it normal that I can't completely cut people out of my life? If I have a friend in my life, I find it almost impossible to completely cut them out. I always want them to somehow remain in my life, even if it's just an occasional "hello." I want them to stay in my life even if they are jerks.

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  • clingy, dont get to attached u will just get hurt

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  • Mastersash

    Ur a good person

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  • Guess_Who

    S'normal. I do feel the same way... Yet, I highly suggest that you completely cut yourself off from the jerks.

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  • pyt1985

    Lol thats funny bunny. But i used to do that, not with the jerks tho. It was kinda like i wad usin them as a back up plan. But how to deal with the jerks, delete every contact number, text, voice mail etc. That has his number. Some days you'll wanna call but u wont be able to and thats the point!! You'll get over it eventually and hoprefully he diesnt call u so u wont have the num again.

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  • bunnyboo22

    Omfg I had a bf like tht his name was Austin and he was clingy if I just said somthing weird like no I don't like a band or somthing he wod start freaking out and was like no no plz don't brake up with me so I broke up with him because of his clingyness and he cryied for days

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  • mtnw

    not normal just because you used the word "can't" instead of won't.

    friends come and go, and sometimes they come back. it depends what's going on in everyones own life.

    i suppose it all depends on the details of what ends the friendship.

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    • you're right, i have to learn to let go...

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  • 13thpipeline

    I'm with smileyestevie. You shouldn't get too attached. You will find people will be in your life for a few years and then will eventually leave to achieve whatever it is that they want. Yes it may be sad, but eventually you'll have to move on or life is really going to suck. It's part of life.

    But please keep in mind, I am NOT telling you to not make friends or anything like that. Please, get out, make friends, have fun. But when they leave do not stress over it. Just take a deep breath, hope they will get to wherever they want to go, and move on.

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  • blabla6678

    Its always good to have much friends but,
    you shouldn't let them hurt you and then you want to keep connected with them

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