Started fantasising about bareback since covid - iin?

I've never understood how or why bareback is seen as a kink (Speaking as a kinky individual myself with some... rather unusual ones). I'll be one of the first to shut down strangers on apps who ask me for it because of how irresponsible it is for so many reasons.

However, I've become so touch-starved that those sorts of fantasies have come to my mind. Have definitely had more time to reflect on fantasies and desires, whatever the case!

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  • Boojum

    I don't think there's anything weird at all about you fantasising about this in the very weird situation we're currently in.

    Labelling bareback a kink is as daft as declaring that eating is abnormal. None of us would be here if literally millions of our ancestors hadn't had unprotected sex.

    However, unprotected sex obviously isn't sensible if you're shagging people you don't know very well and you're not certain of their past and current sexual activities. To continue the eating analogy, that's a bit like habitually picking up discarded food off the street and chowing down. And, if you're a woman, not insisting on a condom is totally stupid if you're not using a method of birth control that's considered to be at least 99% effective.

    I've always detested condoms, and I think I've used one a total of two or three times in my 60+ years. As much as I love PIV sex, I'd rather go without it than use a condom. But then all my sexual relationships have been long-term with the clear understanding that both of us were being faithful.

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    • May ask what kind of things you do instead?
      I know this is personal but am curious and appreciate your detailed comment

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  • CountessDouche

    Forbidden fruits, I suppose

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  • SwickDinging

    We almost always go bareback. One of the perks of marriage. I get why people prefer it because it does feel better, for men AND women.

    Although, technically I could still catch something, if my husband happened to be unfaithful. It is never a truly safe option.

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  • LloydAsher

    The long time isolation, Probably some sort of deep primal trigger to compulse us to breed. Hypothetically wouldnt it be a good trait to get horny about potentially breeding if the population is unusually spread out as an evolutionary sense?

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  • S-O-L-E-L-Y, not soully.

    Also, asexual starts A-S-E rather than A-C-E. Ergo, a-s-e makes more sense

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  • Yes. I know. Maybe try reading the post again and telling me what you pretend to think you feel disgusted about and why :)

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  • Iluvcox

    I do bareback all of the time with "daddy" and his friends, and since I have a boipussy, I bever need to worry about taking the morning after pill, they can all just fuck me raw and pump me completely full of cum and I love it

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    • Inkmaster

      There's still std's.

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      • i know

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    • Well, you have an advantage over me if I've understood you properly

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      • Iluvcox

        Well, yes and no, I obviously can't get pregnant, but I have one fewer orifices to serve daddy and his friends

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        • BlueAlice

          Kthx

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  • Most ases - even the sex repulsed ones - know better than to behave like you. And yet your username is DarkDemonicDesire. LMfuckingAO

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  • olderdude-xx

    I also vote for bareback... it just so much better, and there are actual advantages to it (do some internet research on the advantages of natural ejaculation for both the man and woman).

    However, with 1 exception in my life (yes I did a one night stand once in my youth) all my relationships have been long term with people faithful. The current requirements are once we are good friends first: Full 10 panel STD testing (Cold sores are OK) after a person has not had sex for at least 9 weeks so all the tests are valid (or in certain situations they are also poly and are in a poly faithful relationship and their other partner and them have not had sex outside of their partnership for at least 9 weeks). I also take the test with them so they know my results as well.

    The best way to prevent STDs is to avoid people who have them (or could have them).

    Pregnancy is a different subject, and there are other ways to deal with that that are more effective than condoms.

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  • my_life_my_way

    Just do it and then take a morning after pill

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    • RoseIsabella

      ... what about AIDS, and Herpes?

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      • my_life_my_way

        Just take HIV meds

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        • Even with PrEP existing, I don't want to take that risk

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      • Those are just two of the reasons I avoid it and so judgemental of those who indulge (Even in monogamous relationships, if I'm totally honest).

        Also, pandemic and Tier 4. I think not!

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        • RoseIsabella

          What is Tier 4? If I were married I'd probably do my husband everyday.

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          • England has 4 tiers of Coronavirus. Check on the UK Government website

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    • Um... pandemic?! Hello? Also, I'm in a Tier 4 part of England so couldn't do anything with anyone even if I wanted to.

      If I want any needs seen to by another person, that can wait until it's safe, frustrating as that is

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