Stalking a girl so you can figure out how to meet her

They always blow me off when I try to talk to them directly. So I have to find out where they live, work, take classes, etc., then show up at these places like I belong there and build their trust. Is this normal for guys to do or should I take a different approach?

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33% Normal
Based on 49 votes (16 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • dindu_nuffin

    Not only is this not normal, but it is beta as fuck and you could end up with a restraining order very easily.

    Just focus on yourself, and maybe use some dating sites or go join some outside activities and organizations that interest you. Eventually you will just make some friends and a girl or two will find you attractive

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    • Captain_Flatulitis

      It sounds to me like he is down with the whole equality thing though. I mean he is being respectful enough not to "hit on her" but he still wants to get to know her, so he is doing it "respectfully".

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      • dindu_nuffin

        I like to get to know girls vaginally

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  • charli.m

    You should do it. And when you get that first date, be sure to tell her the story. She'll find it unbelievably romantic, cute and endearing.

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    • 53739

      lol

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  • johnsmith28

    mate that is def normal, no bant, seriously, i have looked up girls on facebook countless time in order to find someone mutual or find out where they will be. i promise dont worry

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  • LittleGirlGagedAndRaped

    STALKER ALERT

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