Stalker or secret admire?

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I like this certain girl rather much, but we don't really talk together.
I keep thinking about her all the time. I often just sit in class and stare at her. I find it really hard to concentrate when she's there.
It's also like, when she's near me, I kinda can't breathe. But when she's not around, I kinda wish I wasn't breathing.
My school is currently closed for the summer, so I don't really see her. I've started to look at pictures of her on Facebook, and I've found out she got a Youtube channel.
Sometimes I drive by her house, just to see it, and then drive home again.
Am I a stalker or a secret admire?

Stalker!! Someone call the police!! 84
Just a secret admire; no need to worry 101
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  • dramaqueen12411a
    13 years ago

    I think your really sweet(: Maybe don't do the drive by the house thing..Kinda creepy. But all the rest of the things sounds like you have a big crush. Don't worry about it.

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    • dude_Jones
      11 years ago

      If you have a wet dream about a girl, stare into her eyes the next day and say "Hi". She may reject you. You'll feel bad for a bit, but the reality check is healthy. It frees you up to move on to the next hot chick.

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    • jusssayin2
      12 years ago

      you wouldnt say that if it was you.....so i wouldnt reccommend telling him that....but hey those r just my thoughts

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    The house thing is kinda whack bro, borderline stalker behavior and the internet stalking isn't as bad seeing as you can't physically assault that person. Hope to God you're not one of those freaks that confess things on the internet before going off and killing people or in this case that girl

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  • CrazyLaugh7
    13 years ago

    AWWW!!
    that's freeking ADORABLE!!

    i swear, i'd be the happiest girl if some guy liked me like that!!! :)

    no worries, i feel the same about this guy i know :) and i DONT get to stare at him all day :(

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  • skunk
    13 years ago

    you have an obsessive nature - try to be careful of it and not go overboard. this type of thinking will plague you in the future unless you take precautions to not let it take over your life and ruin your ability to function. take this advice from someone who shares your particular problem. remember these feeling have less to do with them and everything to do with you.

    g'luck you're going to need it.

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  • maxy123
    13 years ago

    WTF is up with the driving part! lol

    Rest is okay....i guess, stop the driving part lol

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  • Black_Cat
    13 years ago

    Darling,
    If that's how you show your love for a girl, I'm fine with it, and so will everyone else. I had a guy who stared at me constanly when I was in Gr.7. I thought it was adorable! :]

    X..Black Cat..X

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  • Devilsummoner
    13 years ago

    its normal for a guy in love.. =)

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  • jussayin
    12 years ago

    Usually I'd think guys like you are sweet, but if I found out a guy who liked me was making special trips out just to look @ my house when I may or may not even be home, weird. It's cuter if he waste his gas to take me out; talk to her!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It was OK up until the car bit.

    Why not speak to her?

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    A secret admirer on the right path to become a future stalker.Call the stalkers busters.

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  • Vyzr
    13 years ago

    Dont do the drive by thing. If someone notices then they'll start to think "DRIVE BY SHOOTING WILL OCCUR!" or "STALKER!!! CALL THE AMBALAM!"

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  • Peek-a-Boo
    13 years ago

    Hi, story author here. I wrote this poll on my old account, so I can't write anonymously. So if you could please refrain from looking at my poster name ... you just looked didn't you? -.- Oh, nvm.

    I just wanted to tell anybody who cared that I've started to talk with the girl. We're not romantic involved in anyway, but we're good friends and getting better. I can just hope it will evolve into something more someday :)

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  • ♥MissNikki(:
    13 years ago

    Its a bit odd. But no, your not a stalker. I think its cute(:

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  • angelok11
    13 years ago

    Awe that is so sweet! I wish that some man would do that for me one day. But the diving by her house has to stop.

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  • dusttodust
    13 years ago

    its endearing but kindo of uncool and unbalanced. Its called limerence

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  • imgx64
    13 years ago

    You're like Charlie Brown and that little red-haired girl.

    If you don't know what I'm talking about:
    http://comics.com/peanuts/1963-11-14/

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  • rocketscience29
    13 years ago

    it's creepy but not really stalker level yet.. i know what you're talking about with the school thing but i would never visit her house thats a little weird.

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  • chucho
    13 years ago

    no need to worry i did the saem type of things :D

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