Stalker

OMG!! I was dating this guys for like 4 or 5 months. Then we broke things off. Well I guess I did. Shortly after, I started seeing someone else. The first guy wouldn't leave me alone. He was obsessed with me and stil is!

Well we've been broken up for a couple months and he still drives by my house. The funny thing is we live almost an hour away from eachother now! Surely this behavour can't be normal.

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14% Normal
Based on 58 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • ihopeyoudie

    his feelings are normal but his actions arent.

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  • kittyluv

    Restraining order.

    RESTRAINING ORDER!!!!!!!!

    what a creep thats so fucked up!!

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  • onehenn

    :o

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  • Scary.

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  • paepae11

    What a creeper.!

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  • rioko

    Tke out a restraining order. He's crazy...

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  • nikkay22

    Two words: Restraining order!

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  • Mr.patatohead

    bust him im pretty sure stalking is illegal

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  • neopythagorean

    Listen, do NOT call the cops because they will tell you that they can't do anything. Go to the courthouse and file a protective order. You do not need to prove anything in order to do this. Plus, a Sheriff's Deputy will automatically serve the ex-boyfriend with the order so there will be no mistake when it comes to this guy understanding your intentions. Oh, and this is common but NOT normal. Get some pepper spray (and learn how to use it) just in case.

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  • buckshot69

    Personally I wouldn't stalk anyone but I'd be into it if someone stalked me. I admire dedication on that level. Anyone making me mysterious mixtapes or leaving me notes won't have to wait outside my window long because I'll let them in to watch Pulp Fiction with me.

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  • dzulu1

    He's still emotionally attached and the relationship you had. he'll only leave you alone when he has a new relationship or a restraining order(and sometimes those dont even work). I had a stalker once, she was this girl I dated breifly in college. she would come to my job and try not to leave until I got off, sit on my porch and wait for my to come home, she even took my phone one time(while I was playing basket ball i left it on the side line)and deleted all the other female phone #s in there. After that I got a restraining order but she didnt care.
    anyway...
    she finally left me alone when i got our mutualy friend to set her with this other guy. it took a while but the best to get rid of you stalker is to set them up with somebody else ( hopefully someone as crazy as they are )then there preoccupied with that person and can leave you alone

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  • notsonormal21

    Thats fucked up. If it keeps happeneing call the cops.

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  • poojug

    Call the cops dude. My ex stalked me for 8 months... I kept denying that he'd swing by where I lived / worked hoping it would go away. Don't wait that long.

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